I was disgusted by my brother and daughter-in-law, so I let my friend live in my nephew's marriage room overnight
My nephew's wedding was ruined, my relatives threatened, and I watched coldly. Letting a friend move into a new house in advance gives you a premonition of what to expect. Although on the surface it seems that I ruined my nephew's wedding, I know that it is a conspiracy of my nephew and sister-in-law behind it. **, my nephew's mother, that is, my brother-in-law, took over** to blame me, her voice full of grievances.
The younger brother and daughter-in-law asked, "As his own aunt, how can you do such a thing?" Do you know what an embarrassing scene we just went through? You know we're in a bad mood, but you're so ruthless. I sneered and replied, I was sitting in a comfortable air-conditioned room a few days ago, but her call made my heart tremble. My brother and sister-in-law have beaten me many times, and they have discouraged me from going back to my hometown to attend my nephew's wedding.
At first, they tactfully expressed their concern and discouraged me from going back on the grounds that I was busy with work and my physical condition. But I sensed something was wrong, so I asked the reason repeatedly. In the end, the brother and daughter-in-law revealed the truth, and only auspicious people could be invited to the wedding. She thought I was divorced and didn't meet their family's standards. I asked her angrily, "Is it me who is unlucky, or are you the ones who got my house, money, and jewelry?" If you don't let me go back, then you think these things are auspicious? My brother-in-law was vague and only emphasized that I shouldn't go back, otherwise my brother would make me regret it.
After hanging up**, I canceled my ticket back to my hometown and fell silent. Looking back, I am reminded of the time when I was not pampered, and as an adult, I either alienated my family or sought their approval after success. I belong to the latter category, and I have always worked hard with all my heart to get the smile of my parents and the affection of my siblings.
Before I got married, I used to have two boyfriends who I liked, but we were forced to break up because their family was poor and couldn't pay the bride price that my parents demanded. In the end, I married my ex-husband because he was willing to pay a bride price of 80,000 yuan, did not ask for a dowry, and bought a small van for my younger brother. And my parents only fancy these, but they can't see the reluctance in my heart. I was forced to get married.
Soon after I got married, my ex-husband treated me coldly and even did it. A few years later, I divorced my daughter, and although the breakup was not enough to leave the house, he stopped paying alimony for my daughter. With this money, I started my business.
Now, the nephew's wedding has become a fuse for family conflicts. I was deeply disappointed and saddened by the incomprehension and prejudice of my family members. Although I no longer return to my hometown, the turmoil has caused me to reflect deeply on family values and relationships. I am determined to better promote and uphold these important values throughout my career.
After learning that I was divorced, my parents were furious, and even the ** was scolding. They scolded me for being spineless, saying that I chose to break up with such a good in-law, and asked me to remarry no matter what. In the end, they reluctantly gave up only when I promised to send them the same monthly living expenses. And my relationship with my mother's family began to gradually improve after I bought a property in my hometown.
At that time, I knew that people have to return to their roots. Although I didn't think about remarrying, I realized that when my daughter grew up, I would return to my hometown. So, I bought a property in my hometown and started renovating it. After this event, my parents and younger brother's attitude towards me gradually changed. I knew in my heart that these changes were not genuine, but because of the interest I had provided for the property. But despite this, I still feel at ease because I long to have a family to rely on.
My mother's family provided me with some support after I left, so that my daughter did not completely lose the support of her family. However, who would have thought that some people would be so ruthless, even if they are related by blood, even if I give everything. My brother and daughter-in-law didn't allow me to go home to my nephew's wedding on the grounds that I was unlucky. My heart is full of grievances, because all these years, I have only exchanged money for some superficial smiles and care in front of my family.
However, when I finally decided to speak up for myself, I was told that my nephew's wedding had become a laughing stock. I immediately took action and asked my friend to replace the locks on the wedding room and clean up the decorations so that a few people could move in. I even couriered the title deed to them and told them they were not allowed to enter. Sure enough, my nephew's wedding became chaotic and they hurled insults at me. But I don't care about it, I've blocked all my mother's family and decided to take the house. For those family members who only cared about money and not affection, I decided to stay away from them because they never realized what I was really giving.
Some people may say that marriage is a major life event, and even if I have conflicts with my family, I should not make my nephew's wedding a laughing stock. But I don't think I'm wrong, I'm already in a knife's heart, and everything I do is for self-dignity. Is there something wrong with my words and deeds?