Life is like a big drama, the plot has ups and downs, but you know what? In fact, everything is providential! So, we have to learn to let go of ourselves and not get along with ourselves.
1. Heaven is higher than people, don't fight with the sky**
Do you think you're amazing? But providence is hard to disobey! Don't think you can count God. Therefore, we must do our best to obey the destiny of heaven, and not fight with heaven too much.
For example, if you chase a goddess, it takes a lot of effort, but people just ignore you. At this time, you have to understand that it may be that your "destiny" has not yet arrived, or the goddess is not your cup of tea at all. Put it down and look forward!
Second, do not force everything, and go with the flow is the best**
Work and feelings are things that can't be forced, so it's better to go with the flow.
Twisted melons are not sweet", have you ever heard this old saying? If you keep pushing, not only will you be tired, but others will also find you annoying. So, learn to relax a little bit, and you will find that life is actually very good.
3. Keep a normal heart and gather and scatter with fate**
Life is like a train, there are many people up and down, but there are very few people who can really accompany you to the end. We have to follow every encounter, because the encounter between people is originally a fate.
People have joys and sorrows, and the moon is cloudy and sunny", this is providence, and we cannot change it. The only thing you can do is to keep a normal heart, cherish the present, and don't cling too much to the past and the future.
Fourth, be kind to yourself, life is short**
Life is only a few decades, and we all have to be kind to ourselves. Don't always neglect yourself for the sake of work, family, and feelings. Learn to relax, learn to enjoy, learn to cherish the moment, and you will find that life is actually beautiful.
In short, "everything in life is providential", we must learn to let go of ourselves. Don't get along with yourself, don't let those things that aren't worth it affect your mood. Keep a normal heart and cherish the moment!