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Vinny Sha Tu Nisha
Hi, I'm Nisha. Do you think it's complicated to find a partner, so complicated that you have to chase someone year after year? Actually, you don't have to. Those who let you chase for a long time feel that you are not worthy of her in the first place. Even if you try to catch up, she may not be able to follow you down-to-earth.
In the world of emotions, finding a suitable partner is like looking for the star that matches you best in the starry night sky.
Some people say it takes time, it takes patience, but you know what? In fact, whether two people are suitable or not, you can find out the clues after three dates.
This is not a hasty judgment, but a concentrated experience of the initial understanding of each other, the emotional exchange and the test of tacit understanding.
1. First Sight: A Subtle Collision of Attraction
The first date is always full of anticipation and nervousness. You have chosen a cozy café with soft lighting and melodious.
When he walks through the door, you notice that he is neatly dressed and tasteful, with a hint of tenderness in his eyes. You introduce each other, and when you shake hands, you can feel the warmth and strength of his palm.
You start chatting, and his words are humorous and always make you laugh. He notices your details, such as the coffee flavor you like, the little bracelet on your wrist. He compliments you from time to time to make you feel valued and appreciated. This subtle attraction fills the air and immerses you all in this beautiful first sight.
2. Deep chat: the resonance and collision of values
On a second date, you chose a more intimate setting and hoped for a more in-depth exchange. You talk about your life experiences, your hobbies, and even your inner thoughts and beliefs.
In the process, you discover that you have a lot in common with each other, such as a love for a certain book and an opinion on a certain social issue. These resonances make you feel close and happy.
But at the same time, there are some different points of view that come up, and you start arguing, trying to convince each other. This kind of argument is not a bad thing, but it makes you more aware of each other's ideas and values.
In the process, you learn to listen and respect each other's ideas, rather than sticking to your own opinions. This understanding and tolerance deepens your relationship.
3. Coexistence: mutual adaptation of living habits
On a third date, you decide to spend a full weekend together and really experience each other's lives. You cook together, watch movies, go for a walk, and even deal with unexpected little situations together.
In the process, you discover that there are many differences in each other's living habits. For example, he likes to go to bed early and wake up early, while you prefer to stay up late to read; He likes to be neat and organized, while you prefer to be casual. These differences begin to make you feel uncomfortable and conflicted.
But instead of giving up on each other, you are beginning to learn to adapt and accept each other's habits. You start to try to adjust your routine and make some changes for each other. This mutual adaptation and compromise strengthens your relationship.
Conclusion:
Three dates, it's like a short trip. In the process, you got to know each other and felt the attraction, empathy, and contradictions.
But these experiences are not the end, but the beginning. True love takes time to settle and both parties to work together.
So, if you're looking for love, give yourself three dates. In this process, to feel the existence of that person, to experience the subtle emotional changes. Maybe you will find that the right person is waiting for you not far away.
Remember, love requires courage as well as wisdom. May you find your own happiness on this trip.