much of gossip is envy in disguise. much of self doubt is conformity in disguise.
The act of talking about irresponsible things is actually jealousy, and self-doubt is actually due to the constant desire to fit in, but the constant failure.
no one can make you feel inferior without your consent".breathe into you. step out of the shade. be you in the wide open. the only success that matters is being who you are. fitting in is fine. but never try to fit in if this fitting-in means becoming something you are not.become you. become the person no one else is.
No one can control your emotions unless you agree", keep being yourself and stepping out of the shadow areas that make you uncomfortable. Be bold and be yourself, the definition of success is to be yourself. There's nothing wrong with wanting to fit in, but don't change yourself for the sake of fitting. Find your own identity and become the different you.
if people don't like you, let them not like you. not every fruit has to be an apple. it is too exhausting to spend this existence as someone else. if you are a pomegranate, be a pomegranate.
If someone doesn't like you, let them be, not everyone has to be an 'apple' to be recognized. If you think of yourself as a 'pomegranate', become a 'pomegranate'.
Words Phrases:
disguise [dɪsˈɡaɪz] n.camouflage, dress-up;
conformity [kənˈfɔːməti]n.Compliance, compliance;
inferior [ɪnˈfɪəriə(r)] adj.inferior, inferior;
consent [kənˈsent]n.consent, permission; Approval;
pomegranate[ˈpɒmɪgrænɪt]n.Pomegranate;