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Introduction: Every parent has high hopes for their children, hoping that they can become talents and win glory for the family. However, with the deepening of social change, children struggle at the bottom but often face the disappointment of their parents. This phenomenon of "new type of unfilial piety" has aroused people's attention and discussion. This article will focus on the reasons why children are struggling at the bottom, but parents are becoming more and more disappointed, and put forward some ideas to solve this problem.
From elementary school to high school, our student life is full of academic pressures and the burden of parents' expectations. Parents not only create good educational resources for their children, but also expect their children to excel academically. Especially for families with good economic conditions, they are more interested in the leadership of their children at the starting line, hoping that their children can have better development, work in better positions in the future, and bring economic returns to their families. However, most families are not financially advantaged and face financial and resource constraints. Parents want their children to excel themselves, but they often fail to provide more support.
Expansion: Parents' expectations of their children are often deep-rooted in the bone marrow. They want their children to be good people who can make a difference in society. They have made great efforts to provide a good learning environment and educational resources for their children. However, due to financial constraints, most families are unable to give their children too much material support and educational resources. This creates a huge gap between parents' expectations and children's efforts.
In this highly competitive social environment, many children work hard at the bottom in order to change their destiny. They study hard and actively participate in various training and social practice activities to be able to stand out from the competition. However, despite their tremendous efforts, they faced disappointment from their parents. Many parents feel that their children's struggles at the bottom of society do not bring the expected rewards, and it is heart-wrenching to feel that they are not filial enough.
Expanding: There are many children like Xiao Wang around us, who are silently struggling at the bottom, but they have not received the recognition and rewards they deserve. Xiao Wang originally wanted to improve his academic qualifications through the postgraduate entrance examination, but due to the advice of his family, he gave up the idea of continuing his studies and chose to stay in the city where the school is located to find a job. Although he found a job, the salary during the internship period was not high, and coupled with expenses such as rent and living expenses, his life was already stretched. However, despite his meager monthly salary, Xiao Wang still insisted on sending money to his family every month. However, such efforts did not satisfy the parents, who expressed dissatisfaction with Xiao Wang's financial contributions, believing that they had given so much and that Xiao Wang should give more support to the family.
The disappointment of parents has created great pressure and contradictions in the hearts of their children. They understand their hard work and dedication, but find that they cannot meet their parents' expectations. And these parents, while putting pressure on their children, lack understanding and care for them. Children can't help but feel wronged, and they need understanding and support. They come to work in big cities, have no background and connections, and face great competitive pressure. They live alone and face difficulties and sufferings that many people do not understand. I hope that parents can understand and support them, and give them more encouragement and care.
Expanding: Xiao Wang is an "unfilial son" in the eyes of his family, but his grievances can only be understood by himself. He came to work in a big city, had no background and connections, and survived on his own efforts. Sending money to his family on time every month is already his best for him. He works weekdays, even if he is sick, he does not dare to ask for leave, in order to be able to send money to his family on time, why can't his parents understand his hard work? However, Xiao Wang's words made the parents very angry, they thought that they had supported their children's education and now had a good job, but they were unwilling to give back to the family, and they could not see their selfless efforts for many years. Such quarrels and misunderstandings made Xiao Wang feel helpless and aggrieved.
Although the current situation has disappointed many families, we cannot give up hope for the future. When students first graduate, they have limited financial means, are under a lot of pressure, and have limited contributions to give back to their families. However, as work experience and skills increase, students gradually accumulate a certain amount of wealth and financial strength, and the opportunities to give back to their families will gradually increase. It is expected that parents can give more understanding and support to their children, and wait patiently for them to grow and develop.
Expanding: While the current situation has disappointed many families, we cannot give up hope for the future. When students graduate, they have limited abilities due to a lack of work experience and skills, so they have limited contributions to give back to their families. However, over time, they gradually accumulate a certain amount of experience and resources in their work and life. When they have enough capacity and wealth, the opportunities to give back to their families will gradually increase. We hope that parents can understand and support their children's efforts and give them room to develop and grow.
The emergence of a new type of "unfilial piety" phenomenon is not only a problem of children's lack of giving back to the family, but also reflects the lack of communication and understanding between parents and children. Parents should be aware that their children's growth and development takes time and space, and they need to gradually accumulate economic and social experience. Children should also take the initiative to communicate with their parents so that they can understand their efforts and difficulties, in order to gain more understanding and support. Mutual understanding and concern between the two parties can alleviate this contradiction between parents' expectations and children's efforts.
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