Astronaut Nie Haisheng The silent dedication and sadness behind his wife's divorce
Behind China's first female astronaut, Senior Colonel Liu Yang, there is a hero who pays silently - her husband. In order to support Liu Yang's aerospace dream, he was willing to sacrifice his 8-year family plan and chose to accompany her to soar in the sky of knowledge at the Air Force School.
Some people misunderstood his choice, but this is not a label of "gnawing old people". In fact, the families of astronauts need to bear the strict confidentiality regulations of the state, which is a kind of unimaginable dedication and perseverance of ordinary people.
He is the solid backing behind Liu Yang's success, and interprets his respect for the aerospace industry with silent love.
Zeng remembered that Nie Haisheng's wife Jie Lin resolutely opposed his dedication to the aerospace industry, and even led to marital twists and turns for a time. It is often said that astronauts enjoy good treatment, but who knows the hard work behind them?
What challenges did the pilots do go beyond what people can imagine?
Nie Haisheng: The Flying Angel in the Eyes of His Wife In 2005, Nie Haisheng was honored to be selected for the Shenzhou 6 space project, as a key member of the first batch of three-person missions, his name symbolizes a new chapter in China's aerospace history, and every time he takes off, his wife's heart is full of tears of pride and emotion.
When Nie Haisheng's name was honorably announced nationwide, the air force team to which he belonged, his relatives in his hometown in Hubei, and the prominent positions in various newspapers in Wuhan were all immersed in warm congratulations and pride, witnessing this historic moment together.
In front of the TV, there were tears in the corners of her eyes, and her heart was full of deep pity for Nie Haisheng. When the world focused on the height of Nie Haisheng's soaring sky, she knew every tiredness behind him.
This moment of glory is a testimony to his perseverance for 8 years. Dating back to that afternoon in 1998, when China's first batch of astronauts were selected, Nie Haisheng's name was engraved on a historical milestone, and the memory of that moment is still as clear as yesterday.
When Nie Haisheng was selected, Jie Lin was so excited at home that she burst into tears. Sensing that her daughter was coming home, she quickly wiped away her tears and quietly turned off the TV screen. "Baby, are you hungry? "
She smiled as best she could and gently took the child's bag. Although the child is too young to understand the world of adults, her deep pride has turned into silent care.
The little girl had a discerning eye for the inner turmoil of adults, and she did not hesitate to throw herself into Jielin's arms, wrapping her firm little hands around her mother's waist. "Mom, you're missing Dad, right?
Let me stay with you and accompany you. ”
The daughter is like a newborn duckling, fledgling but eager to shelter her parents in the wind and rain, and Jielin's heart is full of warmth and touching sourness.
She stared at her daughter's intimate appearance, and couldn't help but think of Nie Haisheng, just like her husband, no matter in the face of the cold war of life or the passionate quarrel, he always stood tall under his military uniform, unswervingly guarding each other.
Jielin leaned over to look at her immature daughter and comforted gently"Dad took on a difficult task this time and it might take a long time not to see each other. "The little princess seemed very sensible, and said with a smile"It's okay, I can already understand it.
When my dad comes back, he'll bring me a lot of new toys and a lot of fun watching cartoons together. "In her world, the longing for her father turns into the sweetness of anticipation.
Faced with her daughter's confusion and reluctance, Jielin took a deep breath and firmly conveyed:"Baby, this mission is extremely special, and Dad needs to devote himself to a secret job for his safety.
As a result, we had to make you transfer and move. This is a difficult step, but it is the way we must go. You know, you need to adapt to a new environment to grow up, and it may be a little strange and scary, but please believe that it is also for our big family. "
Looking at her mother's serious eyes, her daughter's little face was suddenly covered with worry.
Why are we leaving this home? Did Dad choose to give up on us? Is he telling us in this way that he is going to be separated from his mother? "The little girl's words were filled with doubt and fear, and then tears welled up like a spring.
Jielin gently picked up the baby and walked to the comfortable sofa, her daughter's tears quietly sliding down and wetting her shoulders. Staring at the family portrait on the wall, she couldn't help but sigh in her heart.
Dear baby, although Dad has to take on the responsibility of protecting the country, our hearts will never be separated. Look, just like those uncles, they will take turns to accompany us and lead us to a safe haven full of love.
Although we can't see Dad often, our hearts will always be together. Listen to your mom talk about new life adventures, your little world is full of curiosity and longing, and fear has been replaced by warm anticipation.
Jielin gently comforts and wipes away your tears and snot with a tissue, allowing the future to bloom on your smiling face. "
A warm secret pact was made between the mother and daughter, that is, to strictly keep the information about Nie Haisheng's work at home and not to leak it to any classmates. The little girl solemnly agreed, this promise was like a beacon illuminating her heart, although she was still young, but she persevered in this special space years, until she successfully completed her studies, graduated from the high school outside the space city, no one knew her father's true identity, this code of secrecy became a secret glory on her way to growth.
Jielin stepped into the bedroom to pack her bags, and the little baby clinged to the window, waiting for the arrival of the Air Force heroes to welcome them to Daddy's world. Sure enough, a moment later, the special car of the military region appeared downstairs as promised.
The moment she opened the door, Jielin was pleasantly surprised to find that in addition to the elite team of the Air Force and Aerospace, there was also a professional woman in a white coat, who was a psychological counselor and quietly became an important partner in their journey.
For the behind-the-scenes guardians of all the aerospace heroes, we provide professional psychological support, because they are about to witness the magnificent voyage of the people who are fighting side by side, and this dedication of strength and faith deserves the deepest care and preparation.
From this day on, Jielin turned on the strict guardian mode behind the astronauts. Her movements are subject to strict house rules, prohibiting casual travel, and even dining in restaurants is off-limits.
When shopping, there is a special person to accompany and solve the problem quickly, no leisure is allowed to wander, and every moment is closely around the needs of family safety and the confidentiality of space missions.
For Nie, his diet is strictly disciplined, and every meal is strictly followed by customized recipes, and for him, tasting food is no longer a joie de vivre, but a task that requires all-out effort.
The little daughter's heart is full of entanglement, both longing for her father's company and resisting"Healthy meals"Target**. To this end, Nie Haisheng and Jie Lin showed their cooking skills at home, making fried chicken and brewing fragrant milk tea.
For the daughter who has not tasted it for a long time, every dish of her parents' handmade dishes is like a delicacy. Now, that time of worrying about finding food has become a sweet past in the warm conversation of the family of three.
In the past eight years, Jielin's knot stems from her staunch opposition to Nie Haisheng becoming an astronaut, which even led to their cold war and marital twists and turns. This is not because of her ignorance, but because at that time, there was only one astronaut Yang Liwei in my country, and both of them lacked an in-depth understanding of the strict discipline of astronauts.
In order to adapt to the harsh regulatory environment of astronauts, Jielin decided that it would be more suitable to be a full-time wife, which was her decision after careful consideration.
Jielin's anger is hard to contain, her military career began in her early years, focusing on the in-depth exploration of microorganisms and bacteria and viruses, as an important role in the military hospital research institute, she has a full schedule and has no time to care.
For her, not shopping and eating out is just a daily routine, but making her abandon her profession to devote herself to an idle life undoubtedly pushes her to the brink of madness.
This conflict between career and life escalated as a result.
The good news from the space agency confirmed that Jielin's professional value is safe, and her position at the Beijing Institute of Aerospace Medical Engineering is strong and trusted, and will not cause any problems.
The couple cleared up their misunderstanding and reconciled. Looking at her husband's energetic appearance, Jielin couldn't help but recall the moment of her first heartbeat.
In a wife's heart, isn't selfishness the pursuit of excellence? Jie Lin loves Nie Haisheng deeply, isn't it precisely because he is that heroic and fearless air hero? As an astronaut, Nie Haisheng has accumulated 1480 hours of flight, and that flying attitude is the eternal romance and pride in Jielin's heart.
Since Baby Jielin came to earth, she gave her"Sky Soar"The name, the admiration for Nie Haisheng is overflowing. And Jielin's mood swings stem from two forces: one is her dedication to her profession, and the other is the power of love hidden deep in it.
As the old saying goes: "A woman loves me because of her affection, which is difficult to evaluate objectively, and her beauty is heartfelt." Similarly, Jie Lin's emotional expression towards Nie Haisheng, just like the Wuhan Evening News reporter said, she usually shows a sassy image of a heroine.
However, once Nie Haisheng was mentioned, the deep tenderness in her eyes and words couldn't hide her love for him like a little woman.
In October 2005, Jielin confidently accepted the invitation of Wuhan ** and took the initiative to accept the interview. In front of the camera, her expression was calm and firmly declared to reporters: "Haisheng was born for the mission of flying!" ”
At the tense moment when the rocket was about to ignite, Jie Lin and Nie Haisheng could no longer communicate face-to-face, but she conveyed her firm support and belief in him through **. She firmly believes: "China's aerospace technology strength has given me this confidence, I know Nie Haisheng's training strength well, he is fully capable of this mission, and they will definitely return with full honors!" ”
Liu Yang, China's first female astronaut, has gained an in-depth understanding of the daily life of astronauts before applying to become an astronaut.
Liu Yang's dedication to the mission of space exploration has also influenced her family plans. He has been with her husband for 8 years, he fully supports her aerospace career, knowing that she has a dream of flying, and he is willing to accompany her on the voyage of her dreams, and cherish this persistence for science and honor.
He resolutely put his profession behind and devoted himself to the care of Liu Yang, and at the same time discovered and cultivated his interest in calligraphy and painting, so as to enrich the life of his family members in a special environment, and respond to the special life needs of his subordinates with comprehensive companionship and love.
After Liu Yang's first space trip, she brought double happiness to her husband - a pair of dragon and phoenix fetuses, and the family was completed in an instant. Subsequently, when Liu Yang set off for the stars again, her husband was immersed in the joy of new life, accompanying the children to grow up, and life was no longer lonely and boring.
Tapping into the power of love: Behind the aerospace heroes is a solid backing waiting silently - the success of their beloved partners, Nie Haisheng and Liu Yang, comes from the endless support and encouragement of their families.