Hello everyone, with the sound of firecrackers gradually fading away, the Spring Festival in 2024 is coming to an end, and I can't help but sigh that time flies so fast! People are full of all kinds of blessings, have gradually returned to their posts, the new year and new atmosphere, I hope that the work will be smooth in the new year, all the best, and the wealth will be rolling! In the Year of the Dragon, everyone hurried home for the New Year, and the three-year epidemic delayed our reunion with our loved ones, so even if there was heavy snow this year, hunger could not stop us from going home.
When I went home for the New Year, how many people because of this incident made it a "constant contradiction for many years", a problem that could not be solved for many years, yes! The man wants his daughter-in-law to go home to celebrate the New Year with his parents, but the woman also wants to accompany her parents, and may not want to go back to her mother-in-law's house for the New Year. I really don't want to go back!
In fact, whether to go back to the mother-in-law's house for the New Year has become a difficult problem to solve, especially for the daughter-in-law It is a headache, but if you think about it, there are still many problems here, but it is not a contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, these 3 points are the most realistic, it looks a little heart-wrenching, okay, nonsense, let's take a look with me!
Why are daughters-in-law reluctant to go back to their in-laws' house for the New Year? It's not a contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, it's really realistic! 1. Going home is stressful and burdensome
Why is it said that the in-laws are under great pressure and heavy burden? Maybe some people say at this time that there are many old people who care about their children very much, they have money in their hands, and generally reasonable parents will not care about their children asking for money, and more may subsidize their children, so the young couple going home for the New Year may not be economic pressure, but more "mental pressure".
Take myself as an example, I've been working for a year, and I feel that I can relax after the next vacation, but if you go back to your mother-in-law's house, can you sleep until you wake up naturally like when you were at your own home? It's impossible not to reach out and help cook the Chinese New Year's Eve dinner! When all the relatives are here for the New Year, can you act as if you were nothing, don't say hello, don't go to chat? If you really do nothing, then what kind of daughter-in-law are you in the eyes of others?
But then again, many daughters return to their parents' homes, it may be different, their mothers feel sorry for their children, may be afraid of not eating well, sleeping well, to be honest I am 41 years old this year, but my mother still spoils me, in her heart I am still a child, I can't do anything well, but when I go back to my mother-in-law's house, it's different, after I go back to my mother-in-law's house, if you don't do it, my husband will be angry, and sometimes my mother-in-law is not happy, because you usually don't come back much, this New Year's come back is not good to behave, This may also be the reason why the daughter-in-law is reluctant to go back to her mother-in-law's house.
2. The daughter-in-law is not suitable for the environment and meals of her in-laws
Today, my family is telling the truth! Maybe everyone's ideas are different, of course, there are willing to go back to my mother-in-law's house, and there are also those who are as unwilling as me, the second reason is that the environment is not adaptable, and the food is not adaptable, there may be a family in the northeast, marrying a southerner as a daughter-in-law, or Hebei marrying a daughter-in-law to the north as a daughter-in-law, in terms of eating, it is very uncomfortable, my brother and daughter-in-law are from Hebei, we are from the northeast, she is very reluctant to come back every year, saying that we are not suitable for our living habits, and the food is not the same as the taste, which is also a reason why the daughter-in-law is unwilling to go home.
3. I usually have little contact, and I have nothing to say when I go home for the New Year
Now people are busy with work, and they may have less contact with their in-laws, but after waiting for your in-laws' house, I found that there was nothing to say, in fact, I wanted to relax during the New Year's holiday, and then I had to wear a mask to go back to my mother-in-law's house, which was really tiring! In fact, these seemingly very ordinary reasons are very realistic.
In fact, whether it is a daughter-in-law, daughter-in-law, daughter, or son-in-law going home for the New Year, the old man is very happy. Does a daughter-in-law have to go back to her mother-in-law's house for the New Year? What do you think of this? Well, that's all for today, bye-bye!