When people reach middle age, what is most important to them? Especially in a woman's life, or the easy days are when she is young.
After a married woman has a family, things are even more important, she has to take care of the family, take care of the children, and take care of the family and the outside of the home. Many times they put themselves last, and they have never planned for themselves in the end of their busy lives.
So what is the most important thing for a woman when she reaches middle age? The three women spoke their hearts.
Aunt Qian is 55 years old this year, middle-aged, facing an unhappy marriage and no hope for the future, she believes that the most important day for herself is to get rid of the difficulties in front of her and give herself all her energy.
In the past, Aunt Qian took the family very seriously, although her husband didn't like her and was very cold to her, but she always had such an obsession in her heart.
As long as she works hard to be good to her husband, take care of the family, and let her husband work with peace of mind, she doesn't have to worry about anything. Even if her husband often dislikes himself in life, and he scolds him when he is a little uncomfortable, Aunt Liu chooses to endure it.
What makes Aunt Liu chill is that she is so good to her husband, her husband cheats in marriage, and even harshly gives the family's living expenses for the women outside.
This kind of life makes Aunt Liu feel very depressed, she wants to give up her marriage, but she can't accept that her efforts are in exchange for such a return, not to mention that there are children between the two of them.
Let's just get over it, although she made such a decision, Aunt Qian was still uneasy. Although she chose not to divorce, Aunt Qian also decided not to take her husband as seriously as before.
She decided to be good to herself in the future, to give her time and energy, and no longer put her husband first as before, and often ignored her own feelings.
is already middle-aged, and it is time to understand what kind of life is what you want most and what is the best for you.
People can't put their hopes on others, and they can't let themselves pay so worthless, you must know that life is your own. You have to love yourself and respect yourself first, and then others will love you and respect you.
Aunt Liu is 50 years old this year, and if I ask what is more important to me when I am middle-aged, then I will tell me with certainty that I am good to myself and love myself well.
In the past, Aunt Liu was the kind of woman who was a very traditional woman, she was a good girl before she got married, and after she got married, she took care of the family, took care of the children, and worked at the same time.
There is very little time to think about your own life, your own preferences. Many times I am tired and want to rest, but I don't dare to rest when I think about my children.
Finally, the child got married, and Aunt Liu also came to middle age, and finally had more time to do what she liked.
Looking back at the past few decades, I can't help but feel an indescribable melancholy in my heart. The responsibility is fulfilled, and Aunt Liu also has time to think about what she wants most?
After pondering, she figured it out, life is short for decades, the first half of her life was busy and rarely took care of herself, she was middle-aged, she wanted to live for herself, be good to herself, and put herself first.
When people reach middle age, what is most important to a woman is to love and respect herself. Putting yourself first, being yourself first, is the other identity.
Only when you love yourself and respect yourself can you live your life well and usher in your own happy life.
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