Some people say that life is like self-cultivation, but all problems can only be solved by convincing yourself.
You need to calm down first and then deal with things.
Life is not difficult, the hard thing is to satisfy your desires. People are not tired at all, but they get tired when they worry too much.
The simpler your life, the happier you are.
Really intelligent people are able to avoid outside distractions in their daily lives, adjust their lives to the simplest mode, move on, and forget the things that should be forgotten.
This way, you can focus on the life in front of you and live it to the fullest.
01 Ignore outside voices.
We often feel like this:
When faced with the admiration and admiration of others, we tend to forget ourselves and overestimate our abilities.
Listen when you are criticized or criticized Accepting other people's advice and opinions can make us feel depressed and fall into deep self-doubt.
When we receive advice and opinions from others, we blindly follow them, only to end up losing our way.
As we all know, there are thousands of people in the world, and everyone has a different understanding of life.
If you blindly live your life according to other people's evaluations, not only will you not become perfect in the eyes of others, but you will also lose sight of yourself and disrupt your own rhythm.
We can't let other people's gossip or judgment dictate our lives.
Life is our own. We must decide for ourselves how we live and the choices we make.
"No matter what the rest of the world says, I know I'm right," Pi said. No matter what others think, I never disrupt my rhythm. ”
We can't control what other people say, and maybe we can't, but we can choose to cover our ears, ignore rumors, keep them in our hearts, and take control of our lives.
02 Adjust your life to minimalist mode.
Once upon a time, we all firmly believed that the wider we pursue and the more we have, the happier we will be.
But after all, the stronger the materialistic desire, the deeper the inner anxiety, the stronger the greed, and the easier it is to feel pain.
Mencius said, "The best way to nourish the mind is to have few desires. ”
When we reduce excessive material desires and constant greed, we often find the true direction of life.
Only by learning how to free the shackles of the mind can we be focused and diligent, and only by knowing how to reduce the burden of life can we achieve a brighter future.
As Zhuangzi said, "Wrens nest in the deep forest, which is nothing more than branches; Rats drink water, nothing more than a full stomach".
The best way to love yourself is to adjust your life. Moving to a minimalist mode is also the smartest way to live.
03 When you move forward, you should forget.
Yang wrote in "The Three of Us":
If you can't forget, those painful memories will remain in your heart forever. If the ground stings you, it's better to let go and let everything go with the wind. ”
A person's life is always full of unsatisfactory things, and it is rare to go according to plan.
Anyone can get lost or miss an opportunity.
But if you always cling to the past, you'll miss out on more good things.
Only by stepping out of the shadow of the past can we embrace a better future.
No matter what you've been through, the moment you decide to let go, life starts all over again.
If you haven't met someone yet, you'll meet someone who is more deserving. Even if you miss something, maybe a better opportunity awaits you. Believe that everything will go in the best direction.
When tomorrow comes, enjoy the beauty of life, don't bother others, don't worry about yourself.