In the current economic downturn and the increasingly serious job market, going to a good university is undoubtedly the key to seeking a high-paying job, and going to a good university means entering a good platform.
Qingbei is the best university in China and the dream of non-math students.
Studying hard and getting into a good university is also the best path that parents can pave for their children.
Everyone in Qingbei wants to go to it, but not everyone can go to it.
The so-called "wolf education" and "tiger parents and tiger mothers" education methods allow children to learn by disciplining oppressed children, but with little effect.
A professor once said that before you want to go to Peking University, you should test your IQ first, and give up if it is lower than 110.
It is true that different children have intellectual distinctions, such as math problems that are always incorrect, formulas that cannot be remembered, and some students are easy to learn by writing homework. In addition to the intelligence factor, children's poor learning is mostly related to study habits.
Poor academic performance is mostly due to several problems. Have you seen if your child has been tricked?
1. Lack of concentration.
Whenever it's time to learn, the child starts playing with the eraser. I was still writing my homework just now, and the next second I was playing with a ruler, and I had to delay until 10 o'clock in the evening to finish my homework that I could finish in 1 hour.
Second, it is easy to give up on doing things.
If you don't know how to do the question, you won't do it, and immediately look through the reference *** or ask your parents for help. There is no ability and habit to solve problems on their own.
3. Procrastination.
I often struggle with a question for a long time, I don't know how to learn, and the efficiency of doing homework is too low, and it often takes a long time to ask a question.
Learning ability and learning methods are not innate, and parents can intervene and teach their children early in their learning.
1. Attention is not innate.
Concentration is the key to learning well, and even concentration is the key to success. There is no skill or achievement that is not earned by working hard day in and day out.
Without concentration, it's like a river without water, everything is empty talk. It is difficult to have great successes and achievements.
How to improve concentration.
Make good use of the timer and set an alarm clock for your child, the time is not too long, about 25 minutes is enough, let the child study seriously during this time period, and then rest for 5 minutes. In this way, the child is not easy to feel tired and difficult to persevere, and after doing this kind of training regularly, the child can focus for longer and longer.
Second, the ability of self-learning should not be ignored.
Active learning can better grasp knowledge, to guide children's ability to solve problems independently, through inspiration to help children learn, in the case of children really can't solve the problem, and then tell children how to solve the problem.
This behavior will be more tiring for parents, but the child's ability to solve problems on his own will also improve after that. The learning effect will be good.
3. Improve learning efficiency.
When the learning efficiency is high, the child is naturally more willing to learn.
Divide all tasks into several small pieces, from easy jobs to difficult jobs, so that the tasks are subdivided and the efficiency of doing homework is naturally high.
In the current era of attaching importance to academic qualifications, reading is undoubtedly the highest upward channel, but we must also know that academic qualifications are not the only one.
Whether a child is a child or not, grades are not the only criterion for judging, we must look at it rationally.