Not going home for the Chinese New Year is a topic that is difficult to talk about, but it is also a reality that many wanderers have to face. When we are uprooted and fighting for life and dreams, how to express our hearts to our parents so that they understand our choices has become a compulsory course.
First of all, we need to be clear about where we stand and why. Maybe it's because I'm busy with work and can't find time to go home; Maybe it's because it's a long way and the cost of going home is too high; Maybe it's because I want to take advantage of the vacation to rest and adjust my state. Whatever the reason, we need to be honest with our parents so that they understand our predicament and helplessness.
Second, we need to learn to empathize and understand our parents' feelings. Going home for the Chinese New Year is a traditional custom of the Chinese nation, and for parents, this is an expectation, but also a kind of sustenance. We can pass on our care and blessings through **, etc., so that they can feel our companionship and love.
Again, we need to express our guilt and gratitude in a sincere tone. We can tell our parents that although we can't go home, we still have them in our hearts and appreciate their years of nurturing. At the right time, we can give a gift to express our filial piety and blessings.
Finally, we must be firm in our beliefs and work hard for our dreams. We can tell our parents that the reason why we choose not to go home for the Chinese New Year is because we don't want to live up to our efforts and don't want to give up every opportunity to grow. We want them to know that our efforts and sacrifices are for a better future.
In short, not going home for the Chinese New Year requires us to use appropriate tone and skills to express our thoughts and feelings to our parents. Only in this way can they understand our choices and support our dreams. May every wanderer find their own happiness, and may every family feel warmth and love.