I've heard a passage:
If a relationship is reduced to a woman teaching a man how to do it, she will have a sense of security, how to coax her, she will be happy, then this relationship is not destined to last long.
Because love is such a thing, those who have a heart don't need to teach, and those who don't have a heart can't teach it. ”
I couldn't agree more. In a relationship, what everyone wants from beginning to end is just an exclusive love, a person who only wants to be tempted by himself.
But all the force, are reluctant, true love never needs to be deliberate, if a person really loves you, the truest performance, just these two words - preference.
Preference is to care
I saw a post on the Internet that went viral.
The poster is a girl who has just quarreled with her boyfriend and is in a very bad mood.
The reason for their quarrel was because of an online shopping incident.
The girl bought a small suit for the annual meeting, but the seller never shipped it.
Every time I communicated, the other party said "send it today", dragged it back and forth, and did not receive the goods until the second day of the annual meeting.
Although the annual meeting has passed, the girls are afraid of trouble and originally wanted to leave their clothes.
Unexpectedly, I opened the express delivery but found that the real thing was completely inconsistent with **, not only loose and saggy, but also with a large color difference.
The girl was very angry and immediately went to the seller to report and ask for a return, but her boyfriend complained that she was overreacting.
She felt very aggrieved, so she said to her boyfriend:
Wait so long, yes. ”
I received the goods after the annual meeting, and I can also leave it. ”
But this dress is obviously not the right version, what's wrong with me asking for a return, why do you still accuse me? ”
The boyfriend said: "The Spring Festival, because of these little things, it really affects the mood!" ”
Then, they quarreled.
Under the post, many netizens said:
Girls are not wrong, boys don't help solve the problem, forget it, and they are so indifferent.
For the sake of a trivial matter, such an attitude, what kind of future to talk about. ”
In a relationship, what a girl wants is never to settle things and make a big reason, but to support and protect them for no reason.
It's that no matter what happens, you're on my side, not against me.
In the hearts of those who love you, your feelings are always the most important.
The deepest love is, don't tell me right or wrong, I just know that she cried.
Preference is preferred
I've seen such a sentence:
The most feared thing in a relationship is that you treat him as the only one, but he never has to be you.
For his sake, you can give up all options and leave yourself no way back.
However, for him, you are just one of the dispensable options, and it doesn't matter if you are there or not.
Choosing to be with you is not actually his intention, but there is no better opportunity, if one day he meets someone better, he will not hesitate to leave you.
The pros and cons are never love;
Those who vacillate will inevitably not stand the test.
Someone asked: How to prove that the other person really loves him/herself? ”
Someone replied"You are my blatant favoritism, the only one known to me. ”
Only preference is a special pet, and it is irreplaceable deep love.
When you receive two messages, he will not hesitate to reply to you first.
Eat something delicious and he can't wait to taste it with you.
Seeing the beautiful scenery, he just wants to share it with you.
As long as you have appeared, others have lost their light in an instant.
In this world, the most confident thing is not to be treated equally, but to have a person's preference from beginning to end.
As the saying goes:
Falling in love with someone is like a sunflower without anyone else, and you are everywhere.
When you are there, you are everything; When you're away, it's all yours. ”
In the sea of life, there are many passers-by in a hurry, and everyone is rushing to their own tomorrow.
But for someone who truly loves you, you are his tomorrow.
Many times, his words and deeds, you may think that it is just a matter of character.
What you don't know, however, is that these gentleness and exceptions, he never gave to others.
Blatant preference is affectionate, redemption, affectionate and firm that you can't must.
The preference is to protect the short
Some people always ask: What is it like to truly love someone?
Loving someone, in fact, is not when that person is proud, but when she is not glamorous.
Each of us wants to meet such a person in our lives.
Loved by him, pampered by him, and willingly giving you different favoritism than others.
You are his weakness, he has spent his life gentle, and he has a fearless protection for you.
The neighbor is an old husband and wife, and upstairs and downstairs say that they are a model of a happy marriage.
His wife, Sister Liu, likes to dance square dances, but many times her movements are blunt and her reactions are slow, and she often can't keep up with the rhythm.
Many people didn't want to take her to dance with her, and the eldest sister who led the dance said to her directly
Why don't you go to the dance team in the opposite community, you can't keep up with our dance. ”
Sister Liu was embarrassed and kept apologizing.
Unexpectedly, at this time, her husband, who had been watching her dance next to her, stepped forward, hugged his wife and said:
Why can't my wife dance well, I think she dances very well, you can dance yours and it's over, don't hit her. ”
After speaking, he took Sister Liu's hand and left.
I remember that there is a saying that says:
February**Dynamic Incentive Plan Angels give up their lovers in order to save the world, but demons blow up the world for their lovers. "Like is to judge, true love is to support.
When someone says you're bad, he'll stand up and say that he thinks you're good anywhere.
Some people think you're making mistakes, but in his eyes, you're stupid and cute.
Loving someone to the extreme means that even your shortcomings are "advantages" that others do not have.
Unconscious protection is a subconscious preference, an unconditional cherishment, and an endless protection.
The most enviable love is probably to have a preference for one person and work together to be white.
If the best dowry a woman gives a man is understanding and worship, then the best dowry a man gives a woman is the only and preference.
In this world, the happiest thing is that after a hundred turns and thousands of turns, I finally found an irreplaceable preference.
Only when you are sure that you are deceived and loved, will you feel that he is, and you will have infinite courage and confidence to face the wind, frost, rain and snow of life, and resist all the loneliness and loneliness in this world.
May all your happiness be without pretending, with joy in your heart, favoritism around you, no attachment to the past, and no drawing from the future. When you meet a loved one, you will always have a smile in the corner of your eyes and joy in your heart.
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