Emotional intelligence is a concept that is relative to IQ, and mainly refers to the qualities of a person in terms of mood, emotion, will, and tolerance to setbacks.
In fact, there is no obvious innate difference in emotional intelligence between people, and it is more closely related to the cultivation of nurture. In general, high emotional intelligence tends to have the following eight manifestations.
1. People with high emotional intelligence have lofty goals, and they will not stick to the small sections and small profits in front of them. Such people tend to be broad-minded and tolerant. The goal controls everything, there are lofty goals, the direction is clear, and it is not easy to get lost.
2. People with high emotional intelligence have often achieved self-motivation and do not need external supervision and stimulation. Automatic and spontaneous people do not procrastinate, have a sense of order, and are very regular in both work and life.
3. People with high emotional intelligence have correct self-awareness, have a clear understanding of themselves, know their strengths and weaknesses, and will not do things recklessly. People with high emotional intelligence will never do anything beyond their means.
4. People with high emotional intelligence are good at controlling their emotions, have a cool head, behave rationally, can suppress desires, and can also resolve and eliminate their bad emotions in a timely manner, so that they can always maintain a good state of mind.
5. There are usually three types of pressure: work, life, and personality. People with high emotional intelligence can effectively manage the pressures from work and life, and will not be mediocre, will not strive for perfection, and put pressure on themselves in terms of personality.
6. People with high emotional intelligence are very confident, believe in their own abilities, and believe in their own judgments. At the same time, this self-confidence is just right, and it will not cause others to resent it because of complacency.
7. People with high emotional intelligence are always able to think about each other, be able to put down the things at hand, and lend a helping hand to those in difficulty. People with high emotional intelligence are good at handling interpersonal relationships and can resolve conflicts and contradictions in a timely manner.
8. People with high emotional intelligence usually have strong problem-solving skills, which sometimes not only come from themselves, but also show themselves as good at mobilizing resources and motivating others to solve problems.
9. People with high emotional intelligence do not indulge in emotions, even if they encounter group difficulties and twists and turns, they can still quickly sort out their emotions, find out the crux of the problem, and lead everyone out of the predicament.
10. People with high emotional intelligence have a sense of responsibility, and no one is perfect, and everyone will make mistakes. Some people shirk responsibility, and some people have the courage to take responsibility. Responsibility is indeed the most basic moral requirement of human beings, but it has become a scarce character nowadays. Only by not running away and being responsible can others feel secure, so that they are willing to get close to and socialize.
I have to deny that people need to associate with people, and they need to be believed and affirmed. In the journey of life, we always have partners who have gone through this journey or that journey, accompanying us to taste the bitter and spicy sweets, and spend the joys and sorrows. May you and I be respectful and trusted, and equally upright and wise.