"If you lose your wife and all your fortune, everything will not go well with your filial piety"That's right.
Recently, I watched a short **, which said that this man became an executive in the company, and he made more money, so he found a woman outside, so he disliked his wife, and at the instigation of the woman outside, he divorced his wife, and then started a business with that woman, but I don't want to be in the epidemic for two years, the company has lost a penny, and the woman sees that he is useless, so she looks for a new love. The man had no money, his career was in a slump, and he had no choice but to ask someone to remarry his ex-wife, and the ex-wife let him come back for the sake of the children.
This story reminds me of a sentence from my ancestors: If you lose your wife, you will not get rich, and everything will not go well with foolishness and filial piety. Do an issue on this topic today**.
First of all, let's say that a losing wife is not rich, and a losing wife means that the husband of the family owes his wife, who works hard for the family, and is virtuous and virtuous, considerate and loving to her husband, and takes care of her children. Such a wife will be disliked by her husband, not only beaten and scolded, but also maliciously betrayed, which is called a loss of wife.
In real life, divorce is almost a common thing, in fact, how many people get married, they are full of joy, then disappointed, and finally desperate before choosing to separate; What is a wife, he is the most important feng shui in the family, the axis of the family, he and her husband are equal in status, and the husband should protect his wife, regard her as very precious, and not treat her badly. As the saying goes, "If the family has one heart, there is money to buy gold; The family has two hearts, and there is no money to buy needles. "The emphasis is on the fact that when a husband and wife are of the same heart and mind, they will gather money; But if the husband and wife are not in harmony, they will be destitute.
The Bible says that women are made of water, and water represents wealth in Feng Shui, and from this point of view, the wife's emotions can easily affect the husband's financial fortune. Therefore, if you lose your wife, you will lose all your wealth. To treat his wife badly is to get along with fortune and keep fortune out of the door.
In other words, if a man wants to have a successful career and a harmonious family, he must treat his wife well, of course, the wife is a virtuous wife, if it is a cruel wife, then it is a different matter. If your wife is good, then your career will prosper and your wealth will roll in. If you mistreat your wife, fortune will go your way.
After talking about the loss of the wife, then talking about the loss of filial piety, treating the parents well and dedicating them wholeheartedly, respecting and repaying the parents, this is filial piety. Those who disobey their parents are called unfilial piety, and our Chinese nation has a fine tradition, that is, filial piety comes first.
In fact, there are three realms of filial piety, one is to cultivate the body, so that the parents have a healthy body, the second is to raise the heart, so that the parents are physically and mentally happy, this kind of filial piety is more advanced than the body, is the old people like, and there is a kind of nourishment, so that the parents live meaningfully, let the parents do what they like to do, the old man is determined to be thousands of miles, and he must learn some new knowledge when he is old. These are the three realms of filial piety, as an ordinary person, one is enough.
There is a kind of filial piety that we do not advocate here, that is, foolish filial piety, and foolish filial piety refers to the foolishness of children.
Stupidly filial piety to very scummy parents, and furthermore, it means that everything the parents say is right, without principles and without a bottom line. Marriages in such families are often not consummated. Originally, the marriage was run by two people, and the parents inserted a lever from the middle, so it was difficult for such a marriage to go smoothly. That's why it appeared, foolishness and filial piety all things don't go well.