Literary Pavilion Song.
Repairing and retrieving feelings is a complex process. It will require your patience, understanding and hard work, and at the same time, repairing and salvaging the relationship will require both parties to work together.
Here are some suggestions that I hope you find helpful.
01: Accept the facts.
First of all, you have to face the reality, accept the fact of breaking up or disconnecting, and keep yourself sane and calm enough.
You should not be overly emotional, let alone overly pestering the other person, which will make the other person more disgusted with you, thus increasing the difficulty of solving the problem.
02: Deep introspection.
After your brain comes to your senses, you need to think carefully about what is wrong with your behavior during your relationship.
You have to reflect on the mistakes you have made in your relationship and find your own shortcomings.
In order to save the relationship, you need to change some bad habits or behaviors with your heart. This may include being more concerned about the other person, having fewer arguments, increasing interaction, and so on.
And you have to be determined to change your wrong words and deeds so that you don't repeat them.
03: Contact and Communication.
If possible, you can reconnect through social networking**, texting, and more.
No matter what your relationship is in at the moment, effective communication is the key to solving the problem.
You need to communicate openly with the other person, listen carefully and patiently to the other person's opinions and feelings, and honestly express your own thoughts and feelings to the other person.
04: Rebuild trust.
Building trust is also very important in the process of recovering relationships. Trust is the foundation of a relationship, and both parties need to build trust to avoid mutual suspicion and hurt.
You need to regain the trust of the other person by acting honestly and transparently.
At the same time, you also want to make the other person feel that you are really changing gradually and that you are trying to make progress.
05: Give each other time and space.
In the process of recovering the relationship, you need to give yourself some time to discover your shortcomings and work hard to change yourself.
In addition, you should also give the other person some necessary space and time to adjust their mentality and adjust their emotions.
Doing so can help you deal with your current emotions and re-examine your relationship.
At the same time, you also need to be loving and patient, because it takes a certain amount of time and patience to repair and restore the relationship.
Don't expect problems to be solved right away, be prepared to face setbacks and difficulties.
06: Learn to tolerate and compromise.
In a relationship, both parties will have different opinions and habits, and they must learn to tolerate and compromise. Avoid small things that cause big disputes, which can lead to conflicts.
Sometimes, the problems in the relationship are often related to the personal growth of both parties, and it is necessary to grow together and improve themselves in order to better maintain the relationship.
Repairing and restoring feelings requires sincerity, patience and perseverance.
Choose methods such as communicating openly, respecting the other person, being patient, changing yourself, reconnecting, giving space, and respecting the other person's decisions to help repair and salvage the relationship.
In this process, be careful not to be overly entangled or emotional, and not to be overly dependent on the other person.
While paying attention to your own image, you should also respect the feelings and decisions of the other person. With patience, keep growing and improving yourself.
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