College students' "fake effort" behavior is prevalent, and the third type is very common, and I just want to say that it is too real after reading it
College is a new world compared to high school. No longer worry about grades, get rid of the shackles of teachers and parents, and don't have to struggle on the edge of desperate learning every day.
However, some students are unable to adapt at the beginning of college, do not give themselves a good start, and end up sloppy through their entire college career. After the college entrance examination, the nerves that had been tense suddenly relaxed, and some students found it difficult to adjust quickly, failed to effectively plan their university life, and finally fell into a state of confusion.
On college campuses, about half of the students lack a clear goal, are only interested in pleasure, abandon their studies, and do not realize that they have learned anything until they graduate from college, and even graduation has become a problem. Nowadays, we should not only worry about the "lack of effort" of college students, but also be wary of "fake effort", which is becoming more and more prevalent among college students, and the vast majority of them have fallen into it.
Some students frequented the library not to really study. University life is a process of group life, and dormitories are not suitable for extracurricular study. As a result, most students choose to study in libraries and study halls. However, some students do not study hard despite frequent visits to the library. They may spend a lot of time in the library but don't actually engage in effective learning activities. Some students spend two hours taking pictures just for five minutes to read a book in the library, and there are even cases where a photographer goes to the library to take photos.
There are also students who meet friends in the library or see it as a place to fall in love, turning college life into a game of romance. At the same time, there is a group of students who are serious in class, but in fact they are crazy about taking pictures instead of actually listening to lectures. They may attend every class on time, with a full notebook and pen, but take pictures with their phones while the teacher explains, and they don't intend to review them carefully later. This superficial effort actually masks a lack of deep understanding of their knowledge.
There is also a group of students who usually spend their days lazily, but they study suddenly before the exam and stay up late to prepare for the exam. This phenomenon occurs at the end of each semester, and the learning atmosphere in the school becomes stronger. Even students who usually skip class will rush to class in order to delineate the scope of the exam, and at night they will spend all night memorizing and taking notes, cramming on the improvised. This improvised effort, while performing well before the exam, masks the usual neglect of knowledge.
When they first enter university, many students actively sign up for various clubs, eager to enrich their university life. However, as time went on, some students gradually lost this motivation, and the number of times they participated in club activities was greatly reduced, and eventually they gave up. They would rather sleep in their dormitories and play with their phones every day than participate in club activities.
In college, no one forces students to study, so the gap between students with strong self-discipline and poor self-control is gradually widening. Lack of self-discipline, lack of clear goals, and being easily influenced by others are the main reasons for the decadence of college students. Although college life is relatively easy, academics are still the top priority of college life.
Students who indulge in sleeping, playing games, skipping classes, and falling in love every day are very different from those who study hard and have clear goals and plans. College life is full of enriching experiences, but just having fun and falling in love doesn't really enrich it. Many seniors have had this experience, only to fall in love in college, only to find that the love has dispersed after graduation, and the studies have been wasted, and there seems to be nothing left behind in the four years of college life.
When you study hard day and night for the college entrance examination, the goal is not just to get into a good university and then live a chaotic life. Therefore, I often reflect on why I worked hard to get into college in the first place, and whether my current college life is worthy of the hard work of three years of high school. Always remind yourself not to live up to yourself, let alone your parents' expectations.
It is only through real hard work that college life can become fulfilling. Therefore, we must be strict with ourselves, set small goals, actively participate in practical activities, and accumulate more social experience and contacts. Not only will this prepare you for employment after graduation, but you will definitely not regret the effort you put in.
Do you know that there are some behaviors that are considered "fake efforts" in college?These behaviors may include opportunism, short-term convenience and neglect long-term planning, or the pursuit of superficial brilliance at the expense of real growth. True effort is all-encompassing, not only in terms of academic effort, but also in terms of interpersonal relationships, teamwork, etc. By examining our own behavior, we are better able to distinguish between genuine efforts and those that appear to be superficial, so that we can better meet the challenges of the future.
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