Rural college students' "blind efforts" were commented on by teachers
Except for blind brute force", the professor's evaluation of rural college students"Solid"Yes.
The tense atmosphere of the exam is often incomprehensible to outsiders. Especially for a big exam like the college entrance examination, which can profoundly affect the future destiny, it is difficult for ordinary students to treat it as an ordinary exam, no matter how good their mentality is.
For those rural children who have no family background and live at the bottom of society, the college entrance examination is almost the only way out if they want to leave the narrow living environment. Although the exam is stressful, these students have no choice but to give it their all.
There is an idiom called"The frog at the bottom of the well"It is said that these rural students only find that other people's lives can be so different after entering the university, but they only know how to study hard Xi.
It's just a blind man who doesn't know anything"This is what a professor said about a college student from a rural area. In my father's generation, there was a big gap between urban and rural. At that time, working and living in the city was considered a symbol of social progress. Today, the records of rural families are even more precious because they are able to share the land.
Someone once said that the older generation should not think that moving from the countryside to the city means that they are good, this is just the general trend of historical development. Today, the really good people are the ones who can trade their money from the city back to the countryside.
Even between villages, the disparities are enormous. Except for those who have successfully transformed"Rich people"Most students would love to get out of their own little world. However, the road to the outside world is not smooth.
College students can get frustrated in many ways. A professor took to the internet to comment on what he considered to be a rural student in rather shocking language. He thinks.
The only guidance many rural students receive from their parents is to study hard Xi. Perhaps this is because they realize that they have no other resources and that not being afraid of hard work may be their only advantage in competing with others.
Such students can do nothing but work hard to learn Xi without fear of hardship. During their time in school, they only care about their grades, and even if they study all night Xi they can get some good grades. But by the time they reach college or graduate, they don't know anything about relationships and social knowledge, and they don't have a social mindset.
The teacher's comments were straightforward and did sound a bit bleak. Perhaps this is a manifestation of an underlying state of mind, as parents themselves are inherently limited in their ability to obtain a good income and status in reality.
At this level, how do we raise children with high emotional intelligence and understanding of social laws?Parents and students alike feel powerless. But that doesn't mean we should think they shouldn't have children.
For students from rural and urban areas, getting into college is a step forward in the eyes of their families, but to get a place in the city, they need to put in more effort than others. Sometimes, they are even ridiculed by their classmates and colleagues.
Many netizens believe that this professor has a limited vision of the real one"People from the village"Not enough is understood. In fact, many graduates admit that among their colleagues, people from rural areas are more adequate.
They are eloquent, good at unconsciously mingling with people, and can curry favor with leaders very well. In contrast, urban college students are more likely to behave naïve, funny, and unscheming.
In rural areas, relationships between family members and neighbors tend to be more complex than in urban areas. These students have grown up with a deep understanding of the human heart, and realize that profit is the most important thing, and it is not as you think"Simple"。
In fact, whether a place's student population is simple or complex depends largely on the student's education and upbringing.
Whether it is a rural student or an urban child, there are people who are thoughtful and simple-minded. It is only through contact and understanding that we can assess what kind of person they are and whether they are worth building a relationship with.
The advice for college students is that hard work is a valuable quality, but it is not possible to blindly endure hardship. A former editor professor once said that people are too poor to be left behind the root of laziness. The hard work of low-level work is undeniable, but we cannot just complain about social injustice. The laziness of these people manifests itself first and foremost in laziness to think.
Just like the difference between physical and mental work, the former is really better than the latter"Not afraid of hardship"Is it?In fact, they are not afraid of manual labor, they are afraid of thinking, they are afraid of facing confusion and failure.
If college students inherit this Xi, they may repeat the failures of the previous generation, despite their higher education. For example, they find that their degree is not to their liking, or they get less money after graduation.
Some people begin to take the initiative to find a more suitable major when they are in college, and use their spare time to study on their own to prepare for finding a path after graduation. Some people just regret that they didn't take the college entrance examination seriously when they filled in the volunteers, and they just worked hard after graduation to comfort themselves"Worked hard"。
Regardless of family background, college students can be brave enough to try and achieve their ambitions when they graduate. As long as the risk isn't too great, it's normal to try to change positions and try in a different company.
The effort itself is only a means and a condition to achieve an end, not an end. Only by keeping this in mind can we avoid blindly working towards achieving our goals. Improving discernment and interpersonal skills is beneficial.
Subject] What do you think are the signs of blind effort?