February** Dynamic Incentive Plan Life is endless, and the toss is endless.
I'm ready to change my name again. The general direction remains the same, but it is no longer limited to the emotional aspect.
It's not a fun thing to change your name. Changing the name is time-consuming and brain-consuming.
I just hope to use more accurate positioning to match readers and friends in need.
This time, I am going to remove the suffix of "emotion", and it should be said that the scope of sharing has expanded.
Emotional sharing is not my hobby, and I have always written a little bit.
Why? Because I have been troubled and confused by various emotions in the first half of my life.
And then finallybroke the attachment to emotion, and felt that emotion was really not worthy of too much attention and effort.
Even if he wrote it, the intention was to guide the lovers to break their obsession with it.
The main thing is the direction you want to write, and it is difficult to find a field that matches exactly.
It may feel like an excuse, but it's true.
Actually, my original intention of writing has not changed, I just want toShare content such as self-growth and improvement
But this is too broad and too abstract.
In the eyes of many people, the two concepts of "growth" and "promotion" seem to be the business of half-grown children, as if they have nothing to do with adults.
But my real personal growth only began as an adult.
My family of origin wasn't particularly bad, but there were a few giant babies, a few narcissistic personality disorders, and some histrionic personality disorders.
And they have a common hobby, which is to control and suppress. Haha, I grew up in a very unfriendly environment.
I have grown from an ignorant, emotionally weak, serious internal friction, and resentful teenager (the reasons will be shared later) to a gentle, firm and powerful aunt in my heart, and I have truly achieved self-acceptance (haha, I dare not say 100%, but I can basically digest my various emotions).
I have experienced depression, bipolar, anxiety, and social difficulties, but I have not taken a pill (this does not apply to everyone, if the symptoms are beyond the scope of personal control, it is better to cooperate with the doctor**). I didn't see a psychiatrist, but through my own learning and self-regulation, I achieved self-help and self-healing. (During this period, I attended a training course for psychological counselors, which was very short, and mainly relied on self-study.) ）
I felt inferior to myself because of this, but then I realized that it was an extremely valuable asset in my life.
In addition, in terms of my studies and career, I have taken too many detours and experienced too many pains, and it is precisely because of these experiences that I have a strong desire to share.
School education and family education are too limited!
Family education is the source of many people's troubles and pains。Why? It will be expanded later, and I believe many people feel the same way. (This is not a complete rejection of family education, but because it is carried out in a complex psychological and situational situation with its specific limitations.) ）
School education teaches us a lot of common sense, but it does not teach us how to deal with ourselves and be consistent
If you want to have a truly good life, you must regard self-growth as a lifelong plan.
To be precise, it is self-education (but all platforms are stunned to find this field or section), and this is the only way for modern people to mature intellectually.
Because everyone's heart, background, and experience are different, only matching them according to their own individual needs can be efficient and meaningful.
Growth is all-encompassing, including but not limited to physical and mental harmony, emotional self-consistency, and energy upliftment
Some people may think that growth is a low-level performance, the choice of loser. I have achieved socially recognized success, and I don't need to grow anymore at all.
But in reality, this perception is insufficient.
Growth is inherently endless.
If you have not yet attained the harmony and harmony of the id, ego and superego, and have not achieved the goal of self-realization and self-transcendence, your life will be far from complete.
Next, I will combine my own experience, use the knowledge of psychology, personality and other aspects to share with you the growth of dry goods and chicken soup.
I don't deny that I want to get a sense of accomplishment through this, and maybe I have other selfish distractions.
My philosophy in life is:Try to consider three advantages in doing things: good for yourself, good for others, and good for society.
Practice has proved that if any of these three aspects are not taken care of, it is impossible to go far.
At first, I didn't understand the writing rules of the ** platform, but later I learned that almost every platform has vertical writing requirements.
The field is chaotic, one is not conducive to the distribution and push of content on the platform, and it is difficult for authors to see positive feedback.
Dilemma. At one point, I wanted to reopen the sales number. But I couldn't make up my mind. There is therefore a long gap in between.
I am very grateful to the fans and friends who have never left.
Stay from the beginning, clean up the old mountains and rivers, go to a prosperous life with you, and share a spiritual feast
The new name allows me to think about it again. I don't want to change it anymore.
Looking forward to your wonderful constructive comments or suggestions, thank you!
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