In order to have a happy family, home and everything is prosperous, the New Year must let the children happily go home for the New Year, must be accustomed to their own young masters and princesses, and go home for a few days on vacation.
Our family is three sisters, each with a child, working and studying in different places, the children are all at the age of marriage, the children come back for a few days, and always maintain a warm attitude towards the children on the first day of home, which is to make the children happy.
First, it is up to the individual to decide what time to wake up, what time to go to bed, or to play games overnight.
Second, if you want to eat anything, it is not a problem to eat takeout, it must be arranged.
Third, personal dressing, not to mention their own business, has to express the real fashion if they can't look at it, because we are too old to keep up with the times.
Fourth, relatives make their own decisions, go if they are happy, and don't go if they don't want to go, and there is nothing that must be done.
Fifth, don't talk about topics that children don't want to talk about and don't like to hear.
Sixth, find a partner, get married, change jobs, etc., the children themselves bring it up, and we echo it. Parents should stop talking and respect their children's own meaning.
The object of the current phase may not be able to come together in the future, and it is not worth it to be angry with a person who is likely to be unrelated, and the family is not in harmony.
Working parents don't have the ability to arrange for their children, their children are created by themselves, and parents can't help, so they can only say that they have many years of life and work experience for their children's reference.
When the children are older, they are literate and thoughtful, and then they talk about them like when they were children, the children don't like to listen, and they can't listen to them, and in the end both parties are likely to be unhappy, and they are likely to stare at each other with you, and it is very likely that their voices are louder than you and choke on you. You name it, and they have eight sentences waiting for them.
You say that you are not angry, but it makes the whole family unhappy and everyone is annoyed, and it is not what you want to see.
The path of ordinary children's children can only be walked by the children themselves. The children are under a lot of pressure from work and study, and when they go home for a few days, we make them happy and we are less angry.
It's just a few days to go home for the New Year, what can you do if you are willful at home for a few days? If the child doesn't come back, you won't be able to do the work at home. If the child does not come back, he always thinks that the child will not take care of himself, he will not be able to eat delicious and nutritious meals outside, and he must arrange what he wants to eat when he goes home.
They are all sensible children, who will be so accustomed to their parents and family members when they work, study and live outside. No one is used to them, and when we get home, we get used to it, and what can we do for a few days.
They are all sensible children, and children who work at home boast vigorously and exaggeratedly.
Isn't it good for the whole family to be happy during the Chinese New Year?
The ancestors must be allowed to come happily and leave happily.