Pei Hui has always considered herself a different woman, not only with exquisite appearance, but also with an attractive temperament. But this is the kind of woman who, after meeting Jack, falls into a series of confusions. Jack is the company's new marketing director, handsome and talented, who always brings sharp insights to meetings, earning the appreciation of his boss and the respect of his colleagues. Pei Hui thought that with her charm, she could easily attract the attention of such an excellent man. However, the truth is surprising, Jack seems to have no interest in Peihui's existence, and even seems a little cold at times. Peihui's friend Lily saw her confusion, and one night in a small bar, Lily asked her, "Peihui, do you really care so much about Jack?" Pei Hui sighed and said, "I don't know, I just think his coldness is strange." By chance, Peihui overhears a conversation between Jack and a colleague in the copy room. The colleague asked Jack if he was interested in Peihui, and Jack just sneered and said, "Peihui? She's just a self-righteous woman, and I don't have the slightest interest in that kind of person. Peihui's heart tingled, and it turned out that Jack's disdain for her was not unpurposeful, but genuine contempt. 
In the months that followed, Peihui began to notice five ways that Jack behaved towards her:First, he never took the initiative to talk to her; second, he always avoids eye contact with her even in public; third, dismissive of any of her achievements; Fourth, he often interrupts her while she is talking, showing obvious disrespect; Fifth, whenever and wherever Pei Hui appears, he will find an excuse to leave. Peihui finally realizes that Jack's dislike for her has reached the point of rejection in her heart. She began to reflect on herself, trying to find the reason for it. That's when a sudden accident changes everything. In an outdoor outreach activity organized by the company, Peihui accidentally fell and injured herself, and when everyone hesitated, Jack was the first to rush forward to pick her up and rush to the hospital. In that moment, Peihui saw the worry and anxiety hidden in Jack's eyes. In a hospital bed, Peihui said to Jack, "I thought you hated me all along. Jack was silent for a moment before he spoke, "I just don't want people to misunderstand what is between us." I've been avoiding getting you in trouble. Peihui realizes that her self-righteousness and blind confidence may be the reason why Jack is alienating her. 
Every performance1.Don't take the initiative to talkIn interactions with the opposite sex, initiating a conversation is a basic way to express interest and friendliness. If a person never initiates to talk to you, it often means that he does not have a crush on you, and may even deliberately avoid communicating with you. For example, between Peihui and Jack, she felt a silent rejection. 2.Avoid eye contactEye contact is an important part of interpersonal communication. If a person always avoids eye contact with you, it is usually a silent expression, and he may not want to have a deeper relationship with you. Phoew clearly sensed that Jack was always deliberately avoiding eye contact with her. 3.Dismissive attitudeWhen a person is dismissive of your achievements or efforts, it usually indicates that he does not appreciate you and may even think that you do not deserve his respect. This performance is especially devastating for people with high self-esteem. In front of Jack, Peihui's self-confidence was almost ruthlessly shattered. 4.Interrupted while speakingThis is not only a lack of politeness, but also an act of disdain for your words. Such exchanges can make victims feel marginalized and unvalued. 5.Find an excuse to leaveWhen you show up and the other person always makes excuses to leave, it's a clear sign that they don't enjoy their time with you. This kind of evasive behavior is the most direct manifestation of the other party's rejection of you from the depths of his heart. List of high-quality authors