Yang Feng and Chen Jing met at a gathering of friends. He noticed her at a glance in the crowd, and her smile was like the warmth of spring, and he couldn't help but look at her a few more times. And Chen Jing also secretly glanced at him a few times, thinking to himself that this boy looked polite. After the party, Yang Feng plucked up his courage and added Chen Jing's WeChat, and a journey of ups and downs in WeChat chat began. The first time he chatted, Yang Feng asked tentatively: "Have you had a good time at today's party?" Chen Jing replied: "It's not bad, I have met a lot of new friends." "It was as if the conversation had not yet gotten to the point before it fell into an awkward stagnation. But Yang Feng didn't give up. A few days later, they met by chance in a bookstore, Yang Feng was holding a copy of "One Hundred Years of Solitude", and Chen Jing was holding "Norwegian Wood" in his hand. They began to talk about the stories and characters in the book, and the spark of conversation flickered inadvertently in the scent of the book. Yang Feng took the opportunity to invite Chen Jing to the café to continue chatting with him. Unexpectedly, on the day they agreed, a sudden rainstorm disrupted all plans. Chen Jing sent a message: "It looks like I'm going to soak in the soup today, and it's raining so hard outside." ”
Yang Feng immediately replied: "Don't worry, if you don't mind, we can see you in the library instead, it's quiet and dry." Chen Jing's heart warmed, and she was very moved by this kind of intimate little details. In the silence of the library, the two exchanged their understanding of the book and the perception of life. They laughed so naturally, and the topic of the conversation became more and more in-depth. Chatting again and again, let them get to know each other more and more. However, an unexpected misunderstanding caused a rift in the chat. Chen Jing overheard a friend say that Yang Feng was actually a big carrot, and Yang Feng felt that Chen Jing was starting to be cold, and their conversation was no longer as comfortable as before. Yang Feng began to think deeply about how to build a chat mode between the opposite sex that makes both parties feel happy. In the days that followed, Yang Feng began to try to change the way he chatted, no longer just asking about daily trivial matters, but trying to share some personal insights and interests, and occasionally interspersed with some humorous elements. He listened attentively to every little story told by Chen Jing and gave sincere feedback. Slowly, Chen Jing reopened her heart, and the misunderstanding disappeared. One night, the moonlight sprinkled on the windowsill, and Chen Jing sent a message: "The moon is so round today, have you seen it?" Yang Feng patted Zhang Yue's ** reply: "I saw it, but I hope to watch it with you next time." Chen Jing's face was smiling, and she felt that maybe she should be brave enough to meet this emotion that was about to bloom. 
How many do you know? ：1.Resonant Communication:In this type of communication, the two parties will have an in-depth conversation about common interests and hobbies, just like Yang Feng and Chen Jing discuss books, and this kind of communication can quickly bring each other closer. 2.Humor and ridicule:Light-hearted jokes and well-timed teasing can ease the tension of the chat, like Yang Feng's occasional amusement of Chen Jing's laughter, making the chat atmosphere relaxed and pleasant. 3.Depth**:When the two have a certain understanding and trust, they can start some in-depth topics, such as life concepts and future plans, so that they can establish a deeper connection emotionally. 4.Listen sincerely:Listening to the other party's story, not only to listen to his words, but also to watch his deeds, and feel the other party's emotions and thoughts with his heart, just as Yang Feng re-examined his chat style after misunderstanding, and gave Chen Jing more attention and understanding. As the saying goes, "if the three views are the same, everything can be discussed", and the harmony of chat comes from the fit and respect of each other's values. It is also mentioned in a famous quote: "The art of communication is not in what you say, but in what you convey." Effective communication should consider not only the expression of words, but also the exchange of emotions. List of high-quality authors