**Ten Thousand Fans Incentive Plan Too many good people care too much about other people's opinions and have strong narcissism, so they sacrifice their actual interests for a good title and ethereal honor.
It is often manifested as being praised for a few words and fluttering, and then taking on things that exceed their limits or are not willing to do.
If things are done nicely in the end, maybe the other party will give a few verbal benefits, such as making an appointment for a next drink.
But if things don't get done well, you take the responsibility yourself, and no one forces you.
So I often suffered a dumb loss, and I didn't have a place to complain.
As soon as this kind of thing is shared with the people around you, maybe it will be said that it is a matter of weight, what's wrong with this help?
People with the image of "tyrants" at home often appear polite in the eyes of outsiders.
Because all the suppressed anger is passed on to the people closest to him, the good man is not temperless, but he has no courage.
Why do many people have an inwardly collapsed self?
Because it is disconnected from the world, it creates a false self to cater to the outside world and react.
If the true self is revealed, it will be attacked, and I am not able to digest and deal with this kind of attack.
When a person does not have a firm core, he will inevitably continue to pull, entangle, and compete in the details, causing the energy to dissipate.
Whatever the method, keep your focus on what you want to do, and your energy levels will naturally go up.
Whether it is a regular way of work and rest, a stable intimate relationship, a peaceful mind, a successful career, etc., it is all related to the firmness of the core, so that all the energy is concentrated in one place, and then radiated from it, just like breathing, exhaling and retracting.
Think back to when you felt most motivated and energetic?
No matter what kind of situation we are in at that time, there is a common essence, that is, when we have a clear goal, and we are willing to fight and pay for it, we always feel that there is inexhaustible power.
Why is this state the best?
Because we can devote ourselves to it, at this time the voices of the outside world become the background, and all our thoughts, emotions, and energy are directed to one place.
That's the key to life being refreshed.
Leaving the staggered relationship field does not mean that you will lose everything, including the love, respect, freedom, etc. you want to gain.
No matter how intimate the relationship is, it also needs to be breathable, everyone is the master of their own life, and they can't let others dictate their own direction.
Focus can be embodied in two aspects: career and emotion.
The former needs to focus on how to get more money and improve themselves.
The latter has the ability to make deep emotional connections.
Many "time management gurus" like to pedal on n boats, which is ultimately a tendency to escape.
His own energy field has also been affected, and today he is entangled with this one, and tomorrow he is under the moon with that flower, and the result is that he is stuck in a quagmire.
The large number really doesn't prove anything, it seems to be very powerful, and the state of the person concerned is often a chicken feather, relying on alcohol and drugs to maintain a basic life balance in order to avoid emptiness.
The reason for this is that the kernel is unstable.
The so-called "freedom to come and go" statement is more like a self-consoling statement.
So how do we avoid "relationship attrition" and "ego depletion"?
Emotional level: If you realize that the relationship is full of suppression, demand, and control, the sooner you end it, the better.
Any relationship will not be better because of your concessions, but there is a risk of being kicked in the nose and face.
Anyone other than yourself can be blocked online and not meet offline.
The more value-oriented and high-performance people are, the more they maintain a state of zero tolerance for consumption.
Ideological level: Eliminate wrong culture and concepts.
How can you tell the difference between good and bad?
Follow your heart to choose, there is no absolute right or wrong in this world, if you feel that this kind of thinking has improved your life after studying, then continue to go deeper, don't stop.
Don't worry about the costs you have already paid and the wrong decisions, all you can think about now is how to live your life well and achieve your goals.
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