At the age of 23, my daughter was admitted to the civil service of the ministry and became the pride of the family by virtue of her extraordinary efforts, and I spent more than 100,000 yuan at home for a banquet, and my excitement was beyond words. In fact, my daughter was born in an ordinary small county, but she has longed for work and life in a big city since she was a child, so she is very diligent and hardworking, and her academic performance has been leading all the way since she was a child, and she is at the forefront of the school, which also casts her confident character.
I remember that when I was just admitted to the civil service of the ministry and commission, my daughter was full of expectations for the future, imagining that she could show her strength on the big platform, play her role, realize her own value, and contribute to the country and the people. However, the reality is always cruel. After joining the company, my daughter found that the circle of civil servants is not as simple as imagined, not only to have rich knowledge reserves, strong learning ability, but also to learn to understand the intentions of the leadership, with superb planning and decision-making and implementation ability.
As a fledgling young man, her daughter seems so small and powerless in a ministry full of talents, she is surrounded by very good people, and the competition is very fierce. This year's daughter is 40 years old, and now she is only in a department-level position, and she is still a "big soldier" on the front line, and she is busy every day.
My mother and I are both elementary school teachers, and we are very strict with her education, which makes her develop a rigorous attitude towards life and learning since she was a child, and she will continue to work when she grows up. However, this rigor also makes her seem a little inflexible in her work.
I was worried about my daughter's future. Over the years of working in the ministry, her daughter has been on track and organized, but she has come to realize that sometimes it is just as important to be flexible in how she handles problems. She looks at many colleagues around her who are eclectic and innovative, and always seem to be able to find better solutions to problems, while her daughter is always looking for answers in rules and systems, and many things cannot be affirmed and satisfied by the leadership.
This also made the daughter very depressed, began to doubt her abilities, and began to worry about her future. She often cried to me, worried and worried about whether she would be able to make a difference in the ministry, and sometimes even began to doubt her choices and deny her own worth.
However, whenever my daughter falls into pessimism and sadness, I still comfort her: "Juan'er, you must know that life is like a marathon, it doesn't matter how fast you run, but whether you can persevere to the end." As long as you persevere, there will always be hope. ”
So, my daughter still promised me and chose to persevere. I know that she may not be able to improve as quickly as others, but I believe that as long as she persists, constantly changes her ideas and concepts, and learns more from her colleagues and leaders, she will be able to do everything with ease.
The daughter is a strict girl and a girl with dreams. Now, my daughter is 40 years old, still working in the ministry, although she is still at the department level, doing the basic work of supervising and supervising the office, and the progress among her peers may be relatively slow, but she does not regret it, she chose her own path to me, as long as she persists, she will always see hope, and will always realize her ideals.