The children in the family love to procrastinate and wonder if they have given birth to a "little sloth".
Small things are slowly delayed, and big things are still careless when parents urge their children. Sometimes the child is in a hurry to go out for a long time, and a bowl of rice is eaten for an hour. The parents who watched wanted to get started and did ...... for himI can't wait to take the whip and urge him to hurry.
1. The child's concentration is insufficientMaybe in the process of communicating with the child, the child is not listening at all, but is just following the rhythm of the mother, so the rhythm cannot keep up with the urging of the mother. The mother's voice is like the sound of a car honking on the road, and it has no effect on the child, so the more you urge, the slower the child will be.
2. The child lacks interest in doing this thing, so he will use friction to delay time. Children's minds are very simple, if there is something they don't like or something, they will react directly, slowly, don't like all the expression, so at this time need the correct guidance of the mother, and communicate well with the child.
1. Establish a timetable.
Reason: Children love to grind, mostly because children lack the concept of time.
Solution: According to the child's personality and combined with the mother's time at work, the mother and the child work together to develop a harmonious schedule.
For example: . .Wake up at 6:30 and get dressed, washed, and prepared for 20 minutes
Breakfast at 6:50, breakfast time 15 minutes;
Go out on time at 7:15.
Mother and baby come together according to the schedule, this process mother encourages the baby, mobilize the baby's enthusiasm, the effect will be better.
2. Competitive games are far more effective than nagging.
Reason: Babies sometimes love to rub, not for other reasons, but because adults are too nagging and urging. Two or three-year-old children enter the first rebellious period, this rebellious period lasts about 2-3 years, sometimes the more the adult urges, the more disgusted the child, the easier it is to drag the time not to do.
Solution: Race mini-game. Mom or dad can compete with the child to dress, see who gets up fast, brush the teeth and compete with the family of three, in the process to a certain extent, so that the baby has a certain sense of accomplishment and increase the sense of excitement. A pleasant family atmosphere can also motivate children to speed up.
3. Parents should set an example and keep the time.
Parents are not late for work and arrange their time reasonably, which will imperceptibly affect their children in this family atmosphere. At home, parents strictly follow the schedule, and the child sees it, and the child's sense of time will gradually increase as he grows. It is important for parents to lead by example.
The sooner parents guide their children to learn how to manage their time and adjust their own learning methods, the stronger their children's learning advantages will be.
I would like to share with you a set of books that teach children to learn time management, "Watch at School" series.
This set of 8 books is suitable for children in lower grades, and corresponds to key issues in children's learning, such as how to manage their time and how to complete homework easily.
Who stole my time" guides children to arrange their time reasonably and not to do "little procrastination".
This book can help children easily understand what going to school is all about.
Writing homework is no longer difficult for me" tells children that writing homework is actually very simple.
I'm not afraid of exams" tells children that by doing so, they can get good grades.
A set of 8 volumes, ** is not expensive, but it can cultivate children's time management skills and become excellent children.
Through humorous and imaginative stories, the book adds appropriate fairy tale colors to real life, and tells the story to the hearts of children.
While reading the story, the book also proposes many practical ways to teach children how to manage their time and how to better complete their homework ......
This set of extracurricular reading materials imported from South Korea can help children quickly adapt to school life, develop good study habits, and develop good time management habits from an early age.
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