Introverted children may just be slow to warm up and be shy when communicating with others, but timid children are afraid or even refuse to communicate with others, so there will be some obstacles. When children grow up, it is difficult to integrate into society and get along with others, and they are not able to do things confidently, so they miss many opportunities. Therefore, parents of children who are not confident and timid enough should pay attention, and they must try these methods as soon as possible to give their children a more confident future, which may be able to change their lives.
Low self-esteem is a character shortcoming, and the formation of a person's inferiority complex usually occurs in childhood. There is no doubt that low self-esteem will have a negative impact on children's mental health, and it will also have a depressive effect on the normal development of a person's mental and physical aspects. Today, I will teach parents how to treat their children correctly and get rid of low self-esteem.
1. The importance of gutsOnly those who have courage and courage are the ones who stand at the forefront and can move forward and succeed. Family education wants children to try, to exercise, to change, and to continue to shape children's courage. Do you still expect a timid person to achieve and do much?
Parents should consciously let their children do what they can, give their children the opportunity to perform themselves, exercise their children's ability to live independently, and cultivate their children with a sense of satisfaction from an early age, which is an important guarantee for building self-confidence. Let children participate in social practice activities more often, improve their horizons, understand collaboration, and learn from each other.
3. In-depth exchanges and change conceptsOnly by communicating with your child can you know your child's thoughts, preferences, and needs. Feel the child's feelings personally, comfort and encourage the child when he is worried and afraid, communicate with the child, grasp the child's true thoughts, respond scientifically to the child's questions, and correctly guide the child to face daily life bravely.
Fourth, give encouragement and correct guidanceWhether it is daily life, or learning and training, often remind and guide children, so that they can understand how a person can see a rainbow without experiencing wind and rain, and he will not be perfect if he does not face difficulties. Even if you encounter setbacks and difficulties, you need to be strong, unyielding, optimistic, and actively work hard. At the same time, motivate children to focus on creating their own sky, never miss every opportunity to improve themselves, so that children firmly believe that they can be stronger and can do their best.
There is no doubt that personality is an important harm to the growth of children, and what kind of character will have what kind of life. Therefore, shaping children's good character is not only the main responsibility of parents, but also the most important part of family education.
Editor's Recommendation: This is also a set of English-Chinese bilingual picture books to help children get rid of adjustment disorders and wait for their healthy and happy growth.
There are ten themes in the series, each telling different types of short stories from different perspectives:
Awareness of prevention, bravery, self-confidence, integrity and friendliness, emotional control, politeness, friendship, sharing, self-reliance, self-restraint.
Each topic is followed by a "Message to Parents" to fill in the corresponding professional knowledge of early childhood psychology, help them better coexist with their children, deal with doubts in the process of parenting education, and are also suitable for kindergartens or early childhood education institutions.
Brief introduction: This set of picture books is based on the age characteristics and psychological characteristics of children aged 3-6, integrating the daily life of children of this age, starting from personality, personal behavior, habits, etc., according to lifelike and interesting stories, using concise words to integrate the big truth in it, to help children develop good habits and produce good character. A full set of children's picture books with delicate and lovely pictures is full of fun and can stimulate children's interest in reading, and is an indispensable parent-child interactive book for children and parents.
About author:Hu Yuanyuan (), an outstanding expert in child education, an authoritative expert in child psychoanalysis, graduated from Central China Normal University, majoring in early childhood education, published more than 20 children's correspondence and articles during his work, and has edited several books with unique insights on early childhood education and child psychology.