Dealing with a man who can't let go on either side is a complex and sensitive issue that needs to be handled with care. Here are some suggestions:
Be clear about your bottom line and needs: First, you need to be clear about your expectations and bottom line for your relationship. Identify what you want, what is acceptable, and what you can't tolerate, and then communicate openly with the other person.
Have an open and honest conversation with the other person: Having a genuine, honest conversation with this man is an important step in solving the problem. Tell him about your feelings, concerns, and needs, and invite him to share his thoughts and feelings of conflict. Through communication, find out if the other person is willing to solve the problem, or if there are any troubles that make it difficult for him to make a decision.
Give the other person time and space: If the man has complex reasons and emotional entanglements for both sides of the relationship, give him a certain amount of time and space to think. Respect his feelings and don't force him to make a decision too soon. At the same time, pay attention to your feelings and don't let yourself get caught up in endless waiting and anxiety.
Seek professional help: Sometimes, emotional issues can be beyond our personal capabilities. If the problem becomes bothersome and unsolvable, consider seeking help from a professional counsellor or counsellor. Professional help can provide an objective perspective and better solutions.
Protect your happiness and dignity: No matter what, don't wronged yourself and protect your happiness and dignity. If the man is unable to make a choice or is unable to meet your needs, you should consider reevaluating your position and deciding whether or not to continue your relationship with him.
Most importantly, remember that this is not a one-sided issue, but a joint effort on both sides. Whatever you choose, you should always prioritize your own well-being and health.