Introduction: Dai Liu, a life that could have been successful, but because of his selfishness, her life changed drastically. This article attempts to provoke us to think deeply about the delicate relationship between parents and children through the ** of this cruel and touching family history. It is a question worth pondering how to choose and weigh between family and private wishes.
Origins and dreams.
Dai Liu has been smart since he was a child, both parents have regular jobs, and his family conditions are also good. However, this dad began to show his desire for domination over his daughter. In order to be admitted to Peking University, Dai Liuzhi studied hard every day. In his college, he achieved excellent grades, however, his family, at the most dangerous time, was calculated. Because of her father, she changed her college plan without permission, making her college dream come to naught. When this incident is revealed, the relationship between the two becomes even more strained, and Dai Liu leaves this world and embarks on a journey away from home.
Extended reading: It turns out that family should be a warm haven, and parents are the strongest support for their children. However, just like the Dai Liu family, behind their love, there is a desire for control and selfishness. In order to make up for his regrets, the father deliberately modified his wishes, but instead ruined his daughter. The betrayal and injury of such a family makes people empathize with Dai Liu's pain.
1. Confrontation and alienation.
When Dai Liu's father was asked this question, he justified his approach with past remorse and personal accomplishments. During this time, it was difficult for the father and daughter to communicate, and they did not understand and respect each other anymore. Dai Liu, on the other hand, left alone, went to a farther place, to another place.
Extended reading: Dad's selfishness and stubbornness have estranged dad and daughter who should have been close. Dai Liu has been trying to break free from his grip and pursue his inner ideals, however, his life has suffered a cruel tragedy. was supposed to protect the father's love, but now it has become a shackle, and Dai Liu has to wander alone in order to escape his father.
1) Domination and rebellion.
Dai Liu went to college, but he didn't get the freedom he wanted. His dad still plays a role in her life, and he pays attention to her every movement. Due to his father's intervention, Dai Liu felt that he was about to run out of breath and that he had to find a way to escape. South Korea is a new beginning for her, away from all the constraints and pain, allowing her to have a new life.
Read more: Dad's control over him is not only for a short time, but has been haunting his life. Dai Liu, who lost his dream of Peking University, his father developed a strong rebellion against his self-reliance and maturity, trying to control his whole person under his control. Unable to resist, Dai Liu decides to escape, break away from his control, and find another way to survive.
When I go abroad, I am mainly anti-customer.
Dai Liu's bold run away from home set her on a long path of study. She is abroad, and she walks steadily every step of the way. Dai Liu went through many hardships and trials, and finally found her happiness in South Korea. Coming out of her father's shadow, she launched a new exploration of the pursuit of life and the true meaning of life.
Expansion: After Dai Liu escaped from his hometown, he did not let himself become a waste, but persevered and insisted on his heart. In a foreign country, she regained her pride and confidence, began to work and study hard, and tried to integrate into the new world. It is precisely because of this persistence that she can stand out from the failures again and again and gradually bloom into beautiful flowers.
1. Pursue happiness and discover yourself.
In South Korea, Dai Liu's life is not smooth, but full of uncertainty and challenges. Still, she embraced it and tried to adjust. Gradually, she discovered yoga, love, and joy. Breaking free from her father's control, she can experience true freedom and happiness.
Under difficult circumstances, Dai Liu finally stepped out of his shadow, found himself, and found his happiness. Yoga is not only an exercise, but also a way to calm her mind. Breathing in the fresh air of Jeju Island, Dai Ryu felt that his soul had been settled, and he felt peace and happiness. Happiness does not lie in external objects, but in the peace and contentment of the soul.
Conclusion: The article takes the Dai Liu family as an example to deeply expose the hidden control and pain between parents. Parental love should be tolerant and respectful, not restrained and hurtful. Family education should be centered on balance, so that children have sufficient space for development, and lead children to pursue their own ideals. Only by understanding, respecting and communicating, and by mutual understanding, respect and communication between parents and children, will our children develop happily together.