The Spring Festival is approaching, and the itinerary of visiting relatives and friends has already been full. I visited my uncle on the first day of junior high school, my uncle's house on the second day of junior high school, then I went to my father-in-law's house on the third day of junior high school, and finally it was my turn to visit my uncle and uncle's house on the fourth and fifth days of junior high school. It's been a busy time!
However, the customs vary from place to place, and it is necessary to be cautious when you see people talking. During the Chinese New Year, people often say polite words in their conversations, but don't take them for granted. Below, let's take a look at the "5 sentences" that Lao Yu sorted out for everyone, how to deal with it skillfully:
First of all, although the phrase "people can come, what else do they bring" sounds enthusiastic, it often hides a layer of "catching diseases". Don't be fooled by superficial enthusiasm to avoid falling into an awkward situation.
Secondly, some people say "treat this as your own home, don't be restrained", although it sounds cordial, but it may be that the other party feels a little estranged from the relationship, or the children in the family are in trouble, so they say this. At this time, it is always wise to keep an eye on it.
Again, when you hear "don't leave at noon, I'll go grocery shopping", it may be an invitation to stay a little longer, but in fact it may be that you want to leave early. Everyone was busy preparing New Year's goods and didn't have much time to entertain the guests.
In addition, "I don't have any good dishes at home, let's make do with this", although it is a common polite saying, don't believe it easily. The other party may have put a lot of effort into preparation, but it was just a modest statement.
Finally, "I'll open another bottle after drinking this bottle" sounds like an invitation to drink more, but it could be that the other person is already drunk, so be careful not to drink too much. Prudence is the best option.
All in all, visiting relatives and friends during the Chinese New Year should be treated with caution and should not be taken lightly. At the same time, we should also pay attention to the way of wine tasting, and do not be greedy for a cup and miss a big event. I wish you all a happy New Year, and remember to pay attention to the details in the conversation to avoid falling into awkward situations.
Next, let's talk about the interesting facts of visiting relatives and friends during the Chinese New Year! Although you sometimes hear some polite words, it also depends on the sincerity of the other party. After all, the Spring Festival is a time for family reunions, and the most important thing is sincerity and warmth.
Also, don't forget to prepare some red envelopes during the Chinese New Year! Although red envelopes are just a small thing, they have a special meaning during the Spring Festival. It is not only a blessing and encouragement to the children, but also a filial piety and respect for the elders. When giving red envelopes, you may wish to attach some words of blessing to let relatives and friends feel your sincerity and care.
Finally, I wish you all a happy new year and a happy family! Whether you are visiting relatives and friends or reuniting at home, I wish you all a happy and warm Spring Festival. May these blessings and warm memories become beautiful memories for you until you reunite again next New Year. May your New Year be full of laughter and peace, and all the best!