Hello dear readers! The theme I want to share with you today is "Women should be financially independent – avoid being despised in marriage". In fact, this problem is very common in the real world. Many young girls now tend to look for wealthy partners or husbands to improve their situation, which has led to a sense of anxiety in the choice of a partner in many families, fearing that their daughters may have such tendencies. Unfortunately, this concern has had some consequences.
In recent years, people's perception of marriage has gradually changed, and in the past, it was generally believed that "the right match" was the cornerstone of successful marriage. However, once the man's family finds out that the woman's family is not well-off, it is easy to misunderstand that she is only thinking about money, and may even ruin the marriage. For example, we can only express our deep regret about the recent incident in which Mr. Chen Hangfan's mother refused to hold a ceremony to change his words at his wedding, which resulted in the cancellation of the entire wedding.
The protagonists of this incident, Chen Hangfan and Han Jiayi, originally they had entered a stable love stage, and the two sides had a deep relationship, but due to the large difference in their family backgrounds, the woman was slightly inferior. Chen Hangfan firmly believes that family wealth is not easy to obtain through personal efforts, but he also regrets that he has not been able to perceive his girlfriend's inner regret and psychological pressure. Facing the doubts of relatives and friends, Chen Hangfan and Han Jiayi have to face various challenges and difficulties.
Although Mr. Chen Hangfan's parents are more firm in their son's love advice, they strongly oppose their son's continued relationship with Han Jiayi, because in their opinion, Han Jiayi's family conditions are too different. They fear that their son's well-being will suffer. Still, we have to be open to it, because after all, everyone wants to have their own job and wealth.
However, it is not only wealth that is despised but also the intrinsic value of the individual. As a modern woman, we should earn respect with practical actions, regardless of the family's economic conditions, and should not be subject to this. We should be firm in our beliefs and brave enough to pursue our dreams. At the same time, it is also important to understand that choosing a partner is not just for bread, but more for love and creating a better future with each other. Everyone deserves to be treated with respect and equality, just like Mr. Chen Hangfan, who strives for the recognition and support of his family.
Here, I hope that all women can cherish themselves, have independent financial capabilities, and earn respect and equality. More importantly, we need to understand and accept that everyone has their own life trajectory, and only by having the courage to insist on themselves can we achieve happiness that truly belongs to us. Thank you for reading and look forward to seeing you in the next installment.