In this twisted and twisted story, I am immersed in a whirlpool of emotions, surrounded by laughter, tears, and resentment. Chu Liya, who used to be a believer in love, is now a warrior on the battlefield of divorce, and her eyes are full of pain. That former lover is now a thorn in her heart, and I can only deeply sigh the cruelty of divorce and the helplessness of cohabitation choice.
"I can't refuse his offer."Chu Liya replied to me in an irresistible tone, that condition is the future of the child. After the divorce, Qian Zhihao proposed to wait until the children reached adulthood before separating, and he was willing to bear all the expenses of the children's schooling. For Chu Liya, who has lost her job and income, this condition is like a shackle that cannot be shaken off, but she accepts it without hesitation.
The child is still too young, and if he knew that we were divorced, he would be greatly hurt. Qian Zhihao's tone revealed a hint of affection, as if he had made a compromise for the sake of the child's future. In his opinion, the impact of divorce is far more than the relationship between the two, and it is more related to the growth and happiness of the children.
However, in my opinion, this is nothing more than a carefully woven lie. Their marriage has long since broken down, how can they continue to maintain a happy family? Chu Liya's friend asked, "After the divorce, why do you still live with your ex-husband?" She replied helplessly: "I can't refuse his conditions." ”
I saw the helplessness in her eyes and felt the weight of this choice. Yes, for the sake of the children, for the sake of that little bit of family warmth, she chose a path that seemed to sacrifice herself. This made me think, is such a sacrifice really for the good of the child?
In the midst of this family's predicament, dialogue turns into an unspeakable torment. Between Chu Liya and Qian Zhihao, the former oath was shattered in betrayal, and now, the days of living together are more like a play for the sake of the child. They may maintain a family on the surface, but the anger and pain in their hearts cannot be hidden.
I can't tolerate his betrayal, but I can't let go of my responsibility to my children. Chu Liya's voice was heavy and weak, as if it carried unspeakable emotions. She is the innocent victim, but she is also the mother who chooses to suffer silently for the sake of her children.
The story does not exist in isolation, there are countless such families in society who choose to live together after divorce, for the sake of their children, for a family state that is considered "normal". However, I can't help but ask, is such "normal" really the best choice for children?
Divorce is not only a matter of relationship between two people, but also a challenge to social ethics. We are taught to sacrifice our own happiness for the sake of our children's future, but is this really true? It is hard to avoid the fact that cohabitation does not hide the breakdown of the marriage, but only allows the child to grow up in false happiness.
In this tangled story, I felt anger, heartache, and helplessness. Divorce is not a complete liberation, and cohabitation is more of a manifestation of inner struggle. Chu Liya, like many women, her story evokes my thinking about social issues and triggers reflection on traditional ideas. Perhaps, we need to look at post-divorce choices with a more open eye, and give everyone the right to pursue true happiness. This story may be just the tip of the iceberg, but it was enough for me to sink into it and be swallowed up by the torrent of emotions.
After divorce, cohabitation becomes a choice that has to be faced, but that doesn't mean it's the right choice. We need to reflect on whether the family, marriage, and the role of women in it remain stereotyped. Cohabitation or divorce, the final decision should be for the happiness of the individual, not for the sake of what society calls "normal".
In this story full of complex emotions, I felt anger, heartache, and helplessness. Divorce is not a complete liberation, and cohabitation is more of a manifestation of inner struggle. Chu Liya, like many women, her story evokes my thinking about social issues and triggers reflection on traditional ideas. Perhaps, we need to look at post-divorce choices with a more open eye, and give everyone the right to pursue true happiness. This story may be just the tip of the iceberg, but it was enough for me to sink into it and be swallowed up by the torrent of emotions.