February** Dynamic Incentive Program
Stupidity and cruelty are some of the phenomena here;
So stupid, so cruel, but for another reason. ”
Lao She. 
Mrs. Wang was anxious to hug her grandson.
Think about it day and night. In her words: "Why do you marry a daughter-in-law if you don't hold your grandson?" ”
The daughter-in-law is anxious to have a son.
Tossing and turning, it is difficult to sleep and eat.
If you don't give birth, you will be scolded by Mrs. Wang for losing your door, or you will be swept out of the house.
It's not that you don't work hard to give birth, but if you don't live when you are born, or if you don't live to give birth, what is the way! ”
The daughter-in-law had her first child, and the whole family was offered as a fairy, and she was careful everywhere.
Mrs. Wang didn't even allow her daughter-in-law to sleep at night and turn over, for fear of alarming the grandson in her belly.
But even if you are careful, when the fetus is five months old, it still has a miscarriage.
It's still a boy.
Mrs. Wang inevitably scolded her daughter-in-law, attributing the responsibility for the miscarriage to "the daughter-in-law probably blinked her eyes twice".
The second child is more cautious, and the daughter-in-law doesn't even dare to blink her eyes more, and there are two people waiting for her when she yawns.
Sure enough, it was right to be cautious, and gave birth to a big white fat boy. ”
On a November day, Mrs. Wang was afraid that her grandson would be cold, so she covered the child with four quilts and five blankets.
There were four stoves in the room, and the windows were tightly closed.
How warm it should be, how warm it should be.
But the child lived for five days, and for some reason, he didn't breathe, and died unconsciously.
Mrs. Wang was angry and scolded: "Life should be like this!" ”
It didn't take long for the daughter-in-law to get pregnant again.
Summing up the previous experience, Mrs. Wang decided that her daughter-in-law had eaten too little.
In the middle of the night, the third watch also sent elbow soup to his daughter-in-law, and the chicken shredded noodles were ......”
After all, how can you make a fat boy if you don't eat too much?
After her mother-in-law knew that her daughter was pregnant, she ran home when she had nothing to do, and every time she came, she brought seven or eight food boxes.
When Mrs. Wang saw that her mother's mother had brought so many delicious foods, she was not to be outdone.
The more things my mother-in-law brought, the more my mother-in-law felt that it was deliberately humiliating; The more nervous the mother-in-law became, the more the mother-in-law felt that her daughter's mouth was at a loss.
The two relatives competed with each other to see who would pay more to their grandson, because they ate too much, and the daughter-in-law ate all the corners of her mouth.
Looking at the daughter-in-law's belly that can roll the road, the two old ladies are overjoyed, such a big belly must be twins.
was pregnant for ten months, and it should have been ripe, but her daughter-in-law had a difficult birth.
The midwife worked for seven days and seven nights, but she couldn't give birth.
Mrs. Wang tried her best, kowtowed and burned incense, and gave her daughter-in-law pills and incense ashes for her children and grandchildren. Completely useless.
On the eighth day, my daughter-in-law couldn't drink the chicken soup, and she rolled her eyes in pain.
The mother's mother took the nuns of Tianxian Nunnery to recite the birth mantra; Still useless.
Until the middle of the night, I only saw a little hair, and the midwife tried all means, but there was no trick at all, and directly recommended that she be sent to the hospital.
Mrs. Wang resolutely disagreed.
Can a child who comes out of a caesarean section be called born? What the old Wang family wants is to give birth to a child, don't take it out.
If you really can't give birth, then go to the mother and keep the child, and keep the young and not the big.
If the daughter-in-law dies, marry another one; Children are more important. ”
She told the midwife to pull the child out directly.
As soon as she heard Mrs. Wang's words, her mother's mother quit, "Seeing her daughter roll her eyes at two o'clock!" The grandson is the oldest, and the daughter is the daughter. Go to the hospital,"
Everyone was almost out of breath, and Mrs. Wang was stunned and disagreed, thanks to her father-in-law, she sent people directly to the hospital.
In the hospital, Mrs. Wang began to behave again.
First of all, the hospital**, she felt that the word "hanging" was unlucky, and it was another chatter.
When she saw that it was a male doctor who delivered the baby, Mrs. Wang did not agree to it, so she had to let the female doctor come.
The doctor who happened to meet was a good-natured person, so he only asked ** to drive Mrs. Wang and others away, and hurriedly went to the operating room.
The grandson was cut out, and he weighed eleven or twelve pounds.
My old lady smiled from ear to ear, thanks to her hard work to feed her daughter-in-law so much delicious food, otherwise she would have such a big fat grandson.
As soon as my grandson was born, Mrs. Wang and her mother-in-law poked my face with their old fingers that had not been washed all night.
Seeing this, he quickly put them outside the children's room, and could only look through the glass.
Here, the daughter-in-law was lying weakly on the hospital bed, her face was as bloodless as a blank piece of paper, and the old lady Wang over there began to make trouble, saying that she would take her grandson home.
According to the rules of the ancestors, after giving birth to a son, they should "do it for three days" in front of relatives, friends and friends.
The grandson with the big head, if he doesn't invite guests to do things, what face does he have to live? ”
In this way, with the concerted efforts of the two old ladies, the grandson was carried home.
As soon as Mrs. Wang got into the car, she sneezed vigorously until she got home. Each sneeze was shot at the grandson's face.
She knew that she had a cold, but before the nurse came, she was still reluctant to let go of this grandson.
After more than 200 consecutive sneezes, the eldest grandson's body slowly heated up, and his body was as hot as charcoal, and he died in less than half of the night.
I didn't eat a mouthful of milk.
Mrs. Wang only cried for a long time; After crying, he took his mother-in-law and went to the hospital to make trouble.
Can you live if you cut it out?
You have to fight a lawsuit with the hospital, after all, how can such a fat grandson only live for one day, it is the responsibility of the hospital.
In the hospital, my mother-in-law felt that the hospital was unreliable, so she asked her daughter to be taken out.
In the words of Mrs. Wang, "If the daughter-in-law doesn't take it out, how can it be good to file a lawsuit?" ”
Pity the daughter-in-law who had just come back from the ghost gate, and her belly, which had not yet been connected, was also cracked, and Mrs. Wang pasted her with a folk "postpartum rejuvenation cream".
Not long after being discharged from the hospital, the daughter-in-law died quietly.
Well, the two cases were one, and Mrs. Wang sued the hospital.
She said: I don't want my life, I can't help but avenge my grandson and daughter-in-law! ”
Until the end, Mrs. Wang did not realize that it was her own ignorance that killed her eldest grandson and daughter-in-law.
Sad, lamentable! 
This is a short story written by Lao She called "Hugging the Sun".
is only 5,000 words, using the crushed lives of his daughter-in-law and grandson to tell the sorrow of the times.
They are victims of the times, they are ignorant and hateful, but they are pitiful and pathetic.
The mother-in-law is hateful, but she holds her grandson not only for herself, but also for the old Wang family.
Women are responsible for reproducing offspring", which must be the discipline that mother-in-law has received since childhood.
The first sentence of the opening chapter is concise and to the point, "Why don't you marry a daughter-in-law for the sake of holding your grandson?" ”
What a straightforward statement.
In just one sentence, the tragic fate of women of that era was revealed!
can't help but remind people of Bai Jiaxuan's mother's sentence: "Women are just paper pasted on the window, torn and peeled off, and then pasted a new layer!" ”
So when there is a conflict between caesarean section and natural birth, the mother-in-law makes up her mind that if the daughter-in-law dies and marries another one, the child is more important.
Human life, in her eyes, is also just a piece of paper pasted in the window.
The words pierce the heart and make people sigh.
Mother-in-law is pathetic, as a woman she can be given so much knowledge, so she is ignorant and ignorant.
The daughter-in-law's second child finally gave birth to a grandson.
On a November day, she was afraid that her grandson would be cold.
She burned the stove, four quilts, and five blankets in her airtight room.
The child lived for 5 days and died.
She didn't feel that she was wrong, and only said that "life should be like this". Indeed, this child was born in such a nurturing family, and it really shouldn't be a good fate.
The third child, summing up the experience, "How can you have a fat grandson without eating much?" ”。
Mother-in-law, daughter-in-law, mother-in-law completely agree with this.
The mother-in-law and mother-in-law are responsible for feeding, and the daughter-in-law is responsible for eating.
There is a cognitive bias phenomenon in psychology called the "Duck effect", which refers to the fact that the more stupid a person is, the less able he is to realize his ignorance, and thus the more absolute he is about what he believes
The ignorance of her mother-in-law made her not accept any scientific knowledge of fertility, and did not believe in nursing and doctors, and her absolute belief was "I, who am almost sixty years old, have given birth to children and raised daughters, don't I know more than you?" Have you ever had a child? ”
Just as rats never think that what they eat is stolen, flies never think they are dirty, and bats do not know that they are poisonous, the old lady Wang, who has lived for most of her life under the influence of feudal thoughts, does not think that she is ignorant, and with her own strength, she first killed her grandson, and then killed her daughter-in-law.
But the most heart-wrenching part of the whole story is the ending:
The two cases were one, and Mrs. Wang sued the hospital. I don't want my life, I can't help but avenge my grandson and daughter-in-law! ”
The power of irony is at its peak!
Instead of reflecting on herself, she will go to the hospital.
This is perhaps the greatest sorrow of the ignorant.
As a representative of the times, Mrs. Wang, together with her daughter-in-law, mother-in-law, and husband who has never shown up, constitute the appearance of the times.
In the midst of these beings, we get a glimpse of an ignorant society.
Camus once said this:
The ** of this world always stems from ignorance; If not endowed with knowledge and insight, good intentions can lead to the same amount of harm as malice causes. ”
People don't become wise because of the progress of the times.
When people think that feudalism has been abolished, small feet have been abolished, and equality between men and women has been promoted, they mistakenly think that our times have progressed.
I always feel that we are more enlightened and progressive than the ancients, but what is the reality?
It's just that he continues to be ignorant in a different way.
While people are vigorously calling for equality between men and women, there are waves of women who are willing to embark on the road of adoption.
In order to meet the needs of men, men love the waist of the water snake, and women starve themselves out of anorexia for the so-called small waist.
Men like busty women, and women go for breast augmentation. From ancient times to the present, the breast augmentation business at home and abroad has been going on for a long time.
What is the difference between the essence and the old days of small feet? What is the difference between it and the old lady Wang who is bound.
In the past, the whole society said that women should have children and pass on their ancestors, and it was very important to say that it was very important, and for this reason, women had fertility worship.
Nowadays, the whole world says that the house is very important, and the house must be married when you get married, otherwise the family will be scattered, you can't marry a wife, you can't be a decent person, etc., and then everyone goes bankrupt and takes out commercial loans to buy a house or a car.
Isn't this the modern man who has been wrapped?
On that day, the whole world was overwhelmed with saying that the house is not important, and you can have fun renting a house, and you will feel right.
Whether it is Mrs. Wang or a woman with a water snake waist, they all have similar thinking habits, and when others subtly tell you something, you think it's right.
What is ignorance, this may be ignorance.
can't jump out of the herd thinking, in the past, women were not talented was virtue, but now white is beautiful, black is ugly, and fat is disgusting.
This is the result of the subtle information discipline of society.
When you finish watching "Hug Sun" and no longer only criticize Mrs. Wang from God's perspective, this may be the meaning of reading!
Now you, as another old lady Wang, continue to move forward in the tide of the times, if you want not to be ignorant, you must continue to give yourself knowledge and insight, and be wary of any discipline that can wrap people!