According to the Law of Attraction, you can only meet like-minded friends if you become a better version of yourself. Take the initiative to build a social circle and be in the company of high-quality people. Don't get tangled in things, do things in a principled way, and get along with boundaries.
1. Have a black box mentality, document and examine failures, and learn from them. Listen less to the fart of the successful and more to the experience of the loser. The quickest way to change yourself is to do what you're most afraid of.
2. Make a brick and temper it to withstand pressure. Behind the seemingly bright, there are indescribable hardships and grievances. No one stopped him on the way to degenerate, and thousands of people obstructed him on the way to get ahead.
3. The wise man seeks strength inward. When cornered, they will be restless, depressed, and cowering, but if they are smart enough, they will choose to remain silent and gather strength. All enlightenments have been hopeless, the heart is not dead, and the strange road is the beginning of God.
4. Be an elephant instead of a lion. The lion strikes first, you die before I live; Elephants strike backwards, never take the initiative, have enough security, but will not be bullied. Indisputable, what you do is not to live or die, but everyone can live; Protect yourself, don't cause trouble when you have nothing to do, and don't be afraid of anything; Fight back when you encounter a challenge, and end it with simplicity and effectiveness. Higher emotions form spirit and consciousness, and lower emotions are reduced to temper and emotion. Only by holding steady can we retain our talents.