To get along with your mother-in-law, you must first have a heart of equality, and your mother-in-law is also a mother, just like her own mother-in-law, she is her own relatives and elders, and she can't look at each other differently.
If you buy a gift during the New Year's Festival, you must buy a double portion, and the two mothers are treated equally and cannot be treated separately, so that the mother-in-law must see it in her eyes. As the saying goes: people's hearts are exchanged for people's hearts, and four taels are exchanged for half a catty. Mother-in-law will surely treat you like her own children, it's mutual.
In the process of getting along with mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, you must know that you live at home, how can there be a rice spoon that does not touch the edge of the pot? Say a few words, criticize two sentences, don't take it to heart, be generous, and it's over, don't be careful, don't give in to each other, that kind of small-bellied chicken intestines can't get along with anyone!
Relatives tolerate you, if it is in society, in the unit, no one is used to you! Therefore, we must be open-minded, open up the pattern, do things measuredly, and be able to tolerate the mistakes of others, no one is a saint, everyone has mistakes and mistakes, we must put ourselves in the other person's shoes and consider from the other party's point of view.
At the same time, if it is not right, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law should communicate well, understand each other, talk about it, make it clear, and all problems are not a thing! If you don't say it in your heart, you will be sick, or the other party won't know what's wrong? Doing that, as always, won't solve the problem at all.
If there is something to say, a family does not speak two words, harmony generates wealth, and harmony is precious, so that the family can be harmonious and live a happy life.
Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have always been talked about by people, and it is easy to get along well, all for the benefit of a big family, and life is going for the better. Saying that it is not easy to get along is also complicating things by yourself, they are all trivial matters of life, and they are inseparable from firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, and those things in the parents.
The two most important women in the family are between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, don't make trouble because of unworthy things, the neighbors are uneasy, let the neighbors watch the excitement, say that the old ones are disrespectful, say that the small ones don't understand politeness, and let outsiders see jokes. You have to solve family conflicts by yourself behind closed doors, don't let outsiders get involved, mess up your life, life has to go on, so don't make things big, and other members of the family don't stop. Therefore, find it as soon as possible, solve it as soon as possible, and nip the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law war in the bud.
As a daughter-in-law, as a younger generation, you must be diligent, mouth dessert, coax your mother-in-law more, it is not easy for your mother-in-law to be old all her life, from a young age, she has worked for a large family, eating, drinking, wearing, and breaking her heart, and the next generation must understand. As an elderly person, we should also tolerate the different lifestyles of young people, they are young and energetic, they like to be lively, love to sleep lazy, love to eat snacks, and mother-in-law should understand.
The mother-in-law is happy, she can continue to exert her spare heat for the family, watch the children, clean up the housework, she is happy, she suffers a little, she is a little tired, she is willing, no complaints.
You must know that the family is a quiet harbor and a warm garden, and the two women are the hard-working gardeners and the designers of happiness and beauty.
May there be no estrangement between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in every family, no big contradictions, heart-to-heart exchange with each other, get along well, and resolve the ups and downs in life.
I hope that every daughter-in-law will be a kind, smart and lovely woman, and treat her mother-in-law the way she treats her mother-in-law, and see how your family life will be very different?