The nearest relative came to you to borrow money, and you were hesitant to lend it to her, which is a big problem for you. If you don't lend it to her, I'm afraid I'm sorry for her, lend it to her, and I'm afraid that she won't pay it back, it's really a dilemma, this is the distress of borrowing money.
At this time, it depends on the amount of money borrowed by the other party and where it is used. It also depends on whether she can afford to repay, and what she is currently doing can probably be estimated.
If the other party is doing serious business, and it is used for the children's schooling, marriage, buying a house, or doing business, etc., consider lending it to her if you can do it. If she doesn't have a fair and honest reason and doesn't do her job, she has the bad habit of eating, drinking, having fun, and playing with money, and the habit of chatting and lying, she must master the scale, understand her personality, and then decide whether she wants to lend it out or not.
In addition, make sure that you have the strength to do so, don't slap your swollen face and become fat, you have to die to save face and suffer crimes, and according to the actual situation, touch yourself around! In short, think twice before you act.
I believe that in life, there must be many people who have experienced similar events. If you don't borrow it, will it ruin your family relationship? If you borrow it, do you want to make an IOU? Will she be able to afford the money? Will it break the contract? Will it be deliberately not returned? Alas, all kinds of contradictions are intertwined, and the borrowed person is restless and restless.
If you don't pay it back, it involves unfriendly things such as beating officials and serving complaints. If they pay it back on time, what else do you have to say?
If the other party keeps his promise and repays it on time, such a relative is worth making a deep friendship. Knowing the grace of the report, there is borrowing and repaying, and it is not difficult to borrow again, and now there are indeed fewer people who keep their promises!
It is not surprising that the borrower is now the "ancestor". Some people have borrowed money from others and have no intention of paying it back, some people still "play and disappear" and deliberately hide, some people don't admit it at all, some people obviously have money in hand, but they just don't pay it back, they eat and drink spicy food, they still live in new buildings, drive luxury cars, and they have long "forgotten" about borrowing money behind their minds.
Once they are in trouble and need money, if they want to get it back, they will find all kinds of excuses or cool words, "No! ", don't pay it back! ", you are a big business, do you still care about this money? It is like a high-minded face, and it has nothing to do with itself. Other people's money is not blown by the wind, it is all earned by hard work, which is really angry, and I regret not being at the beginning!
This kind of ungrateful person is so chilling! I regret that I was too soft-hearted and lent the money easily. Because I can't see others begging for nothing, I can't bear to refuse others, I don't help others when they are in trouble, I really can't look down, and I think that others will definitely pay it back when they have money. In short, too kind, too easy to talk, too easy to trust people!
Especially relatives, if you don't help, you don't want to go, there is family affection, it is always difficult to give up, I hope that relatives live well and live happily, and everyone is happy.
But there are also some people who rely on the relationship of relatives, practice deception, kidnap people with morality, and play the emotional card, but they don't know that your righteousness has harmed others! It not only hurts other people's money, but also hurts family affection, which can be said to be worse, making people unable to accept this blow, hurting deeper and hurting more.
When others are in trouble, lend a hand, you must keep it in mind, and repay it twice afterwards, you are the person who values love and righteousness, and there will be a chance to get along in the future, and you can't block the road at once. In this way, if you have difficulties in your life in the future, others are willing to lend a helping hand to help you tide over the difficulties and get out of the difficulties. Otherwise, at the moment when you need help the most, no one will appear in front of you, your cry for help will not bring back the disappointed people's hearts, you will hurt people thoroughly, everyone will stay away from you, and hide far away.
Only by being honest, speaking counted, and doing things reliably can we win respect and trust, so that family and friendship can persist for a long time.
Relatives, relatives, the more you go, the closer you go; Close, close, closer and closer.
Let us have good thoughts, trust each other with sincerity, and bless each other with reciprocation.
May the family affection in the world last forever, may the beauty of the world last forever, and may we always love each other forever.