Did you know that when you are old, lying in a hospital bed, looking at the sky outside the window, you will suddenly understand that there are really only a few people closest to you in the world. It's not the friends who party with you late into the night, or the co-workers who stammer you when you're in the limelight, but the people who stay there when you're most helpless.
First of all, I have to talk about your old wife. You may have been together for decades and have long passed the passionate period of love, but this is the person who will chat with you at the hospital bedside and accompany you through every difficult night when you are sick. I remember one time, when I was in the hospital, I saw an old man who could barely move because of his illness, but his wife would come every day to help him wipe himself, chat with him, and even read to him. Isn't that the sincerest love, you say? So, don't always spend your time on those three-minute hot relationships, those so-called "friends" run faster than rabbits when you're in trouble.
Then, there are those friends who have gone through the test of life and death. You may say, in today's society, who still has such an iron buddy. But I'm telling you, there really is. There may not be many such friends, but they are definitely gold-like existences. They will lend a hand when you are in trouble, and they will not ask you why, only what you need. I have a friend who needed surgery because of his condition before, and the cost of surgery was not small. Several of his old friends sent money as soon as they heard about it, and some even took leave to take care of him in the hospital. You say, is there a more touching friendship in the world?
Finally, it's your good-natured, intimate child or junior. This is probably the one that best reflects your usual behavior. If you are usually good to your children, they will naturally be grateful when they grow up. Take myself as an example, I have always been very good to my nephew, and I usually think of him first when I have any good things. Now, he works, and every time he comes back, he brings me some gifts, and even takes the initiative to call ** to greet me. It's a really heartwarming feeling.
But then again, life in the world cannot be smooth sailing. There will come a time when you will find that there are really not many people who are really willing to be by your side. But that's enough, because these people give you the most genuine care and love. So, from now on, we must cherish these people. Don't wait until you lose it to regret it. You must know that in this world, the people who are really willing to accompany you to old age are the ones who are most worthy of your cherishing and gratitude.
In this fast-paced society, we are always so busy pursuing material satisfaction that we neglect those around us who are really good to us. When we are old and sick, we will find that these talents are the most precious treasure in our lives. So, from now on, be kind to those who really care about you and spend more time with them, because you never know how much time you can spend with them.
Remember, life is short, don't let yourself live too tired. Don't let your old age be left with loneliness and regret. Cherish the present and live well, this is the most important thing.