The thoughts are disconnected, and the heartache is silent.
There is a kind of longing, there is no sound, there is no *** called "disconnection". is like the Tang poem "Exquisite dice An red bean, do you know the lovesickness to the bones?" In the same way, I miss a person deeply, but I can't connect with him or her, and I can't say it.
While longing between lovers is a matter of course, in some cases, audible longing can turn into an interruption. Therefore, under certain circumstances, some deep love and longing may not be able to be spoken or connected.
The thought of mutual affection and observance of etiquette can be unforgettable and can also enhance the bond between couples. In the TV series "I Only Like You", Yan Mo and Qiao Yi agreed to study abroad together, but due to changes in Qiao Yi's family, it could not be realized.
Yan Mo, who is not good at expressing his emotions, is entangled in this, so the two have not been in touch for four years. It wasn't until Qiao Yi decided to face up to his feelings and came to work in the city where Yan Mo was located that the two resolved the misunderstanding.
The deep love of Mo Mo also gradually manifested after they crossed paths again. It turned out that in the four years that they were separated, Yan Mo had been silently following her dynamics without Qiao Yi's knowledge, and he never stopped thinking about her.
Disconnection is because it is not sure whether the other party has its own place in his heart, and it is a difficulty that cannot be picked up or put down; Then turn your thoughts into silent mode and express your love and expectation for your lover in silent language.
02 disconnection, in order to better meet each other, "May you pick more, this thing is the most lovesick." This is the longing expressed by the poet Wang Wei in "Acacia". In today's fast-paced world, objective factors make it difficult for us to be with our beloved.
Some people choose to believe and endure the distance because of trust and deep love; Some people are more dependent on each other and prefer to be inseparable. However, as the saying goes, "if the two love for a long time, how can it be in the morning and twilight", people who know how to break contact can always be ready for the next better meeting.
In a long-distance relationship, we can't share each other's joys, sorrows and sorrows in real time, and the occasional chat may make the other party misunderstand what we mean because the words are inaccurate or insincere.
Therefore, a timely disconnection can not only allow us to better adjust ourselves, but also pave the way for the next meeting.
The accumulation of long-term conflicts will eventually affect the work and life of both parties. Perhaps, distance produces beauty. A short separation can trigger deep longing between partners.
In a certain leisure moment, I will imagine what kind of life my lover will face in a distant city. This curiosity will turn into an expectation for a lover, and it will also invisibly pave the way for the next meeting.
As the proverb goes, if you think about it, the end of the world is near. For lovers who are concerned about each other, even if they are thousands of miles apart, they will not contact each other frequently to enhance each other's sense of existence.
Mature people understand that a short separation is a rare time to be independent of each other and improve themselves. Only by being able to endure loneliness and disconnection can we meet a better future for each other in a better state.
Letting go is also a kind of love, and sometimes in order to make the other person's life better, we choose to let go. The love story of Liu Shijie and Du Yuehong in "I Love Hedong Lion" is the best interpretation of this point of view.
Although their love is full of twists and turns and challenges, Liu Shijie's amnesia gives Bai Shuixin a chance. Although Du Yuehong tried to awaken Liu Shijie's memory, she finally chose to let go.
Perhaps this is a form of love, even if you can't be together, you have to let each other live well. Artistic creation comes from life, and perhaps in our lives, there are similar love stories.
In life, love does not happen often. For those who give silently and do not ask for anything in return, he will not stay where he is. Because of the passage of time, he will make up his mind and choose to leave.
This kind of disconnection is the love that cannot be let go, and it is the last dignity reserved for each other. People express their emotions in different ways, some choose to say their love out loud, while others are willing to hide their love in their hearts and manifest it in silent companionship.
The same is true for missing a person, sometimes frequent contact may just be a habit, and disconnection does not mean not missing. Disconnection is a test between lovers, a brave hand over to time, and a love affair that gives freedom to lovers.