People often ask in the background, similar to meeting someone you really like, what to do when you meet the right person at the wrong time? It depends. If the two of you meet at the wrong time, that is to say, there is no way for two people to love each other, and two people are destined to have no results in the future, then in order to avoid greater pain and suffering in the future, it is best not to have the idea of wanting to be together.
And if the two of you like each other very much at first, it is also appropriate to fall in love together, but then you can't be together because of various reasons such as reality or different places, I believe that this is particularly painful for anyone, and it may not be acceptable for a while, but it is impossible for two people to be together. No matter how reluctant or sad they are in their hearts, since it is a fact, they must learn to accept it slowly.
After all, we all know that love is fruitless, there is no possible thing, no matter how you insist, if you persist for a long time, there is still no way to change this result, and there is still no way for two people to walk together. You have to know that no matter how much one person loves another person, if two people can't stay together all the time, they will face a lot of gossip, a lot of hurt, and even be looked down upon.
It's no wonder that some people say that sometimes the order of appearance between men and women is also important. For example, whether two men and women of the opposite sex can finally be together and have a good result together, the most important and primary condition must be that both of them are single and are looking for their other half. After that, it depends on whether they can get along and whether they will feel happy when they get along.
Otherwise, if you don't have these two prerequisites, then no matter how hard you try to give to the person you like, no matter how hard you try to win the love of this person, you always think that this can touch the other person's heart. Honestly, it doesn't make any sense at all. In other words, for people who have been married or have a partner, even if they fall in love again, they should not disturb each other, and for those who cannot be together, they should not continue to date.
The people who came over remind you that two people who have never been together, no matter how deep their love, no matter how reluctant they are, must learn to break up. As the saying goes, there's a deep love called: Learn to break the connection!
As an adult, you have to understand that there is more to life than just love, and there are so many things to consider. You should learn to keep a clear head and learn to approach everything rationally instead of getting confused when you encounter something boring or unsatisfying. You don't know what to do, and you can't make up your mind. Especially the kind of love that doesn't know the outcome in the first place, you know people who have nothing to do with you, don't take the initiative to ask questions, don't always try to participate, don't want to help each other.
Especially when you know what happened to the other person, it will always appear in your mind, but also because you are worried about the other person, resulting in your own bad food, poor sleep, and even bad work every day, if the two of you are destined to never be together, even the most ordinary friends of the opposite sex have not done it, then you should learn to accept heartbreak, don't care about so many things that should not be responsible, and don't always inquire about each other's affairs, once you know that the other person's things have become less, Then your troubles will follow, and your troubles will follow, slowly returning to your original life, and the smiles on your face will become more and more.
You must know that two people cannot be together, two people who are not related to each other should not have too much communication and contact, and do not always chat privately and share life with each other. Doing so will only make it impossible for the two people to return to their normal lives, and it will only make their hearts more and more painful. To put it bluntly, they are just torturing themselves. Once there is no way to be with this person, once they are unable to walk into each other's real life, then you have to learn to break up, learn to separate, learn to let go of this person, and then slowly forget about this person. Only by doing so is the best way for yourself, you won't be stuck in the mud all the time, your heart won't hurt all the time, and you won't be disappointed in real life.
Imagine if you have a person in your head every day, always thinking about each other, thinking about each other, and caring about each other, such as worrying about whether she has eaten, whether she has not slept well at night, how she has been feeling lately, what she is doing now, whether she will also care about herself, etc. , always thinking about these problems, there is no way to calm down and do your own things or work, and there is no way to return to your original life, let alone find your original joy and happiness.
Maybe you know very well in your heart that if two people are destined to have no results and are destined to not be able to be together in this life, then don't be reluctant, feel reluctant, don't always miss each other, always care about each other, don't keep in touch all the time, so they are not good to themselves, don't contact again, learn to shift their attention and focus on other things. Maybe you will find that you are not inseparable from each other. It seems that you can forget about this person and slowly return to your previous life. You will also have a lot of things you want to do, and slowly find your original direction in life.
After all, you all have to understand a truth, that is, the most important and precious person in the world is himself, we should not be embarrassed, should not ignore, should not hurt the person should be themselves, no matter what things are now, no matter what life is now, no matter what emotional setbacks, please don't ignore yourself, don't let yourself always fall into sadness and pain.
Even if you let go of this person and forget this person, you will meet a more suitable person in the future, and you will meet a person who truly loves you. No matter what they encounter in the future or how many ups and downs they go through, two people will never give up on each other. That kind of person really loves himself, and he is the person he should cherish. Don't look at the wrong person anymore, know people with your eyes, meet people who are worthy of loving him, and truly know how to cherish yourself.
If the two of you will be together sooner or later and have a fruitful love, which means that two people can love each other forever, it doesn't matter if you give more for each other, it's worth it. After all, two people can finally be together and become intimate partners and accompany each other for the rest of their lives. All the efforts are absolutely not in vain, and there is no time limit for the love they have.
In fact, people nowadays are very smart and very clear in their hearts. If they really love each other and really don't want to miss each other, if both of them are single, it is possible to be together until the end, so don't miss the opportunity to confess to each other, you may be together. However, if it is impossible for the two of you to be together and you are not single, then no matter how long you are together, there will be no good results and you will not be blessed by everyone. You may not be destined to be together, and sooner or later you will become strangers with nothing to do. Both sides are just passers-by in each other's lives.
So you can't go out there anymore and spend all your time and energy on chatting with this person, even dating is really a waste and not worth it for yourself. You still have to understand that love without results is a waste of your time, and it is not right from any point of view. Don't let yourself get into such a desperate situation. Since the two people are destined to have no result, they can't become lovers, and they can't return to ordinary friends, so they simply cut off their contact with each other so far. As long as the two of you are separated, there will be no contact from now on, and slowly as time progresses, you will slowly forget each other.