Bai Jian, a physical education teacher in Liaoning, has been adopting two or three hundred children for almost 30 years since 1996. Although he can have an income of more than 200,000 yuan a year, for the sake of these children, he not only has no surplus, but also owes more than 400,000 yuan in foreign debts.
His love and persistence made these children feel the warmth of home, and his actions let us see the great love of the world.
Bai Jian has adopted so many children, what does his family think about it? How do these children repay Bai Jian's nurturing grace when they grow up?
Bai Jian didn't tell his family at first, he started *** because he was afraid that his family would not understand. At that time, he had only adopted a few children, and although life was difficult, he was able to cope on his own.
Bai Jian never imagined that he would persist for thirty years, let alone adopt hundreds of children. However, this was his choice and his persistence.
After graduating from university, Bai Jian came to Anshan Middle School to work as a physical education teacher, although the salary was not high, he met Xiao Hao, a child abandoned by his parents. Bai Jian couldn't bear Xiao Hao to drop out of school, and decided to adopt him and bear his study and living expenses.
However, raising a child was more difficult than he could have imagined. Xiao Hao's grades are not good, and he has bad habits, so he stole Bai Jian's hard-earned money. Despite the difficulties, Bai Jian still sticks to his promise to Xiao Hao and decides to help him move towards a better future with love and patience.
Bai Jian knew that Xiao Hao had a bad habit of indulging in Internet cafes, so he searched for black Internet cafes near the school, and finally found Xiao Hao with hard work. Faced with the fact that the money was missing, Bai Jian did not mention it, but asked Xiao Hao to follow him home, and treated Xiao Hao sincerely as always.
However, this sudden lack of money made Bai Jian's life difficult, and he was about to reach a situation where he had nothing to eat. At this time, Xiao Hao was finally moved by Bai Jian's persistence and dedication, and took the initiative to admit his mistake and return all the remaining money.
Bai Jian was very relieved, he saw that his efforts were not in vain, and at the same time, he was full of confidence in his adoption action.
In the past two years, Bai Jian has selflessly adopted ten children with great love, who are poor, disabled, or orphaned, all of whom have their own different predicaments. In the face of these children, Bai Jian did not hesitate at all and accepted them all.
Recently, however, he has faced a new challenge. He adopted a girl, which made him wonder if he could take care of a girl on his own, after all, as a man, taking care of a girl can be a little inconvenient.
At the same time, as the number of children increases, so does the pressure on Bai Jian, and he realizes that he needs to find a helper to share the work. Therefore, he began to look forward to having a partner with whom he shared this responsibility.
Bai Jian is a tall and sunny young man, who is at an age full of possibilities, but he has never met a suitable object.
Bai Jian has adopted multiple children, but every time he tells the girl the news, the other party is scared away because he has to take on the same responsibility. After many failed relationships, Bai Jian decided to focus on educating his children and no longer considered getting married.
In order to solve the manpower problem, he turned to his family for help, and they were surprised to see so many children to take care of. However, Bai Jian's mother is a reasonable person, and she agrees to help her son with a smile and is willing to take on this heavy responsibility.
Under his mother's guidance, Bai Jian accepted more children, and soon his brother and sister also participated in the helping action, which made Bai Jian very encouraged.
For Bai Jian, it is not enough to just adopt these children, he also needs to find a way out for them in the future.
The children adopted by Bai Jian have common characteristics, such as backward cultural classes, poor physical fitness, and difficulty in integrating into the group. Therefore, Baijian not only provides them with their living needs, but also strives to exercise their will and ability.
Early in the morning, before dawn, Bai Jian took the children to start running, and their goal was to run half a marathon. Bai Jian has his own educational philosophy, and he insists that children participate in physical activities every day for two main reasons.
First, in order to exercise, the children he adopted are in poor physical condition and need to improve their physical fitness through physical exercise. The second is to give children the opportunity to change their destiny through sports, because their cultural grades are average, and he can't tutor himself, so he chooses the path of sports.
Bai Jian believes that sports is a field with quick results, and as long as there is determination and perseverance, it will pay off. As a physical education teacher, he has a wealth of training experience and firmly believes that sweat can be gained.
Mr. Bai Jian has not only cultivated many national team athletes, but also made many children gain an advantage in the college entrance examination through sports. At the same time, sports also temper children's will and lay a solid foundation for their future foothold in society.
His first child, Xiao Hao, became a civil servant through unremitting efforts. He mentioned that under the teaching of Mr. Bai Jian, although the conditions and prospects may not be the best, a very valuable spirit can be cultivated.
As Bai Jian's popularity gradually increased, the number of people who knew him also increased. Fortunately, during the 2008 Olympic Games, Bai Jian also became a torchbearer.
In order to ensure that Bai Jian could successfully complete his important task as a torchbearer, some of the older children also volunteered to buy him a pair of sneakers. Due to the extremely high rate of Olympic torchbearers, since 2008, there have been many interviews with Bai Jian, which has allowed people to gain an in-depth understanding of the difficulties he encountered in raising his children.
For Bai Jian, the biggest challenge in raising these children is money. He is just an ordinary physical education teacher, but he often has to take on the responsibility of feeding dozens of children.
Bai Jian has a special way of treating his children. From the moment he started adopting his first child, Xiao Hao, he would do everything possible to make money. In the past few decades, whether it is setting up a stall or opening a small shop, as long as it is a way to make money, he will try.
In addition to this, he will also ask the children he has sponsored to help him in turn. In order for them to be self-reliant, he would let them work on their own after they went to college to earn living expenses. He also once opened a mobile phone store and let his sponsored children manage it.
Of course, there are also people who question his approach, thinking that he treats children too harshly and is suspected of using them to make money. However, Bai Jian insisted on his own way, and he believes that only in this way can children truly learn to be independent and learn to take responsibility in life.
In 2022, a documentary about Bai Jian "The Second Time in Life" sparked heated discussions among netizens. In the film, the audience saw the daily life of Bai Jian and the children for the first time.
The plot in the documentary is thought-provoking, Bai Jian wakes up the children at four or five o'clock in the morning, and then conducts his unique long-distance running training method, the children run in front and Bai Jian chases behind, while the car drags several children behind.
This type of training is seen as extreme, but the children willingly accept it because it is the only way for them to change their destiny.
An Internet celebrity had questions about Bai Jian's real life, so he went to a ** event. Bai Jian warmly received and told him frankly that his annual salary could reach 200,000 yuan, and he would increase his income by bringing goods and opening ** through the Internet.
However, the cost of feeding dozens of children far exceeds these incomes, and at the worst he owes more than a million in debt, and now he owes more than 400,000. In order to bring comfort to Bai Jian and his children, the interviewer decided to treat them to a good meal, and it turned out that Bai Jian's life was very difficult.
For the sake of the 40 children around him, Bai Jian will prepare 40 servings every time he buys ingredients. One of his shopping lists, pork, beef and seafood, cost him more than 1,300 yuan, which made his usual expenses seem even greater.
However, as he became popular online, more people began to support him. Many people are willing to donate to Bai Jian, and he has now paid off all his debts. In front of the camera, Bai Jian said excitedly: "I have never felt so relaxed, and I would also like to thank those who have been willing to lend money to my friends and relatives over the years." ”
He assured that the donations received will be made public to show gratitude to supporters.
Although there are some voices on the Internet who question Bai Jian, he did not avoid talking about it, but actively used the Internet to defend and promote himself. He firmly believes that most people on the Internet are kind people, and it is because of the Internet that his deeds and children's stories are known to more people.
Therefore, Bai Jian not only does not reject the Internet, but also is not afraid of Internet doubts. He's just worried that excessive online engagement will affect his children's daily lives, so he's been handling it carefully.
It is worth mentioning that in his forties, he finally met a lover who was willing to accept him to raise a child, and married her in 2019 and gave birth to a lovely child.
Although he started a family, he was still willing to adopt more children.
As the children grow up and more like-minded people join, the "Dream House" is sure to thrive. According to rough statistics, there are more than 200 children who have lived by Bai Jian's side, most of whom have been successfully admitted to universities, and even more than 10 have been admitted to prestigious universities.
Bai Jian, who comes from a rural area, was one of the first college students in his county, and he knew how difficult it was for children from poor families to get ahead. This empathetic compassion gave him the idea of ***.
His family silently supported him behind the scenes, which was also the motivation for him to persevere. Let's wish his "dream home" better and better, and the good people of Baijian will definitely have good rewards.