In a busy and noisy world, we are prone to become restless because of all kinds of trivial matters. However, only people with a sense of the overall situation can stay calm in the face of difficulties and face the ups and downs of life calmly. People who really have a big vision often have three characteristics: "don't speak", "speak softly", and "be kind-hearted".
There is a wisdom that says, "He who speaks slowly costs money." "People who really have a big picture tend to listen to other people's opinions first, think carefully before expressing their own opinions. This "moderation" is not cowardice, but modesty, prudence, respect for oneself and others.
Confucius said, "A gentleman wants to speak slowly and act quickly. This sentence tells us to think twice when we speak, and not to promise what we can't do. People who really have a big picture view are often able to keep their promises, match their words with deeds, and prove their commitments with practical actions.
Those who are physically flexible become rich" is a kind of cultivation. People who really have a big picture view often have a "soft" quality. They are kind-hearted, tolerant, understanding of others, and do not get angry or complain easily. This kind of "softness" is not weakness, but a kind of tolerance and generosity, as well as respect and consideration for others.
Lao Tzu said, "The softest thing in the world is the strongest thing in the world." This quote tells us that weakness often triumphs over strength. People who really see the overall situation will resolve conflicts through their "softness" and win the respect and trust of others.
Guoyun: "Those who are virtuous are prosperous." A person who truly has a view of the overall situation must not only have the characteristics of "slow speech" and "soft character", but more importantly, he must have noble morals and profound cultivation. They pay attention to their own inner development and constantly improve their moral character and qualities in order to earn the respect and trust of others.
Confucius said: "The virtuous are not lonely, they always have neighbors." This sentence tells us that virtuous people are not alone, but always have like-minded friends and partners. People who really have a sense of the overall situation will rely on their "good morality" to unite people's hearts and achieve careers.
People who really have a broad vision tend to have characteristics such as slow speech, soft demeanor, and kindness. They face the ups and downs of life with a peaceful mind, tolerate others with magnanimity, and unite people with noble morals and profound cultivation. These qualities are the ones we need to keep learning and pursuing on the road of life. Follow the example of these great people and constantly improve your own model and field to become a better person.