Xiaoli is a colleague of mine and is over 40 years old this year. The years have left traces on her face, but those bright eyes still reveal the love and expectation of life.
and her ex-husband were unable to have children, which led to a quarrel all day long, and later the friendship between the two was lost.
Later, after the introduction of the matchmaker, Xiaoli and her current husband once again entered the palace of marriage hand in hand at the beginning of this year. After remarrying, her husband's warmth and friendship made her want to become a mother more and more intense - for herself and for him.
Xiaoli can see that her current husband likes children very much and longs to have a child of his own, but he respects himself and cares about her feelings.
Let's go to the hospital tomorrow for a check-up! After a year of marriage, Xiaoli finally made up her mind to give birth to a crystallization of love for her current husband.
The results of the examination showed that both were in good health, and as for why they had not been pregnant for so long, the doctor blamed their age.
Even so, Xiaoli still didn't give up. In the past three years, she has tried various methods, Chinese medicine, Western medicine, acupuncture, massage ......Whenever she could, she tried.
Finally, in the winter of the third year, she conceived the child. That news was like a spring breeze, bringing new hope and vitality to her life.
Her husband loves her more than before, Xiaoli feels that her happiness has just begun, and she will give this little angel who is willing to come to her life a lot of love in the future.
Xiaoli, you don't have to go to work. This little baby didn't come easily. From now on, you can rest at home, and I will take care of you both. I don't know how many times Xiaoli's husband has told Xiaoli about this problem.
My dear, there is one month left to end the year, our year-end bonus is equivalent to one month's salary of mine, I hold on a little longer, I can give our future baby more protection. Xiaoli said casually while packing up her things for work.
I don't think you're going to get on, you see you're struggling to put on shoes now. The place of work is so far away. You believe me, I can afford to support your mother and son. Xiaoli's husband continued to persuade while helping Xiaoli put on her shoes.
Rest assured! I'll be careful. I just held on for a month and then I didn't go. After all, 5,300 yuan is not a small amount. Xiaoli said and prepared to go out.
Xiaoli's husband couldn't persuade Xiaoli, so he had to send her out and repeatedly told her to be careful.
So, she still insists on going to work every day, and still squeezes on the crowded bus every day. The carriage was crowded, and her abdomen was often accidentally hit by someone next to her. But she always smiled and shook her head and said it was okay. She has only one thought in her heart: for the sake of the child and for the year-end bonus of 5,300 yuan.
However, life is always full of surprises. Just a dozen days before the Chinese New Year, she suddenly felt severe pain in her abdomen, followed by bleeding from her lower body.
She was rushed to the hospital by a well-wisher, but the doctor regretfully told her that the child had been miscarried. The news hit her like a bolt from the blue, and she broke down in an instant, crying bitterly.
She regretted it, regretted taking the risk for the 5,300 yuan year-end bonus, and regretted not choosing to raise a baby at home earlier. The 5,300 yuan has become so insignificant in her eyes at the moment, and the child she once looked forward to so much has left her forever.
In this context, we should recognise that health and the safety of our children are paramount. It is very important for women who are trying to get pregnant or who are already pregnant to maintain physical and mental stability. This includes avoiding overexertion, maintaining a good routine and eating habits, and avoiding bumpy modes of transportation such as long bus rides.
In addition, for women who want to get pregnant, it is recommended to consult a doctor in advance to understand their physical condition and preparations before pregnancy. Doctors can provide personalized advice and guidance based on individual circumstances to help women better prepare for pregnancy and protect their own health and the health of their children.
Finally, we should also realize that the arrival of children is a kind of fate and blessing. In the process of preparing for pregnancy, we should maintain a calm mind and not be overly anxious and impatient. At the same time, during pregnancy, you should cherish the health of yourself and your child, and avoid irreparable losses caused by impulsiveness and greed.