Why are you always being calculated? It's not that you're stupid, it's not that you're weak, it's not that you're easy to bully, it's a common problem of human nature, that is, you can't see that the people around you are better than you.
The so-called distant worship, near jealousy, in fact, there is a very sad understanding in life: never believe in your love with anyone, never overestimate your relationship with anyone, you never know how much malice you will have behind your back for those people who seem to be very close to you, those who seem to be very calm on the outside.
Beggars will not be jealous of billionaires, they will only attack beggars who earn more than themselves. There is a saying in the market: the poor do not go to their relatives, the rich do not return to their hometowns, and they are afraid of their fellow villagers. Because there is a kind of evil in human nature, that is, hating you for having it, laughing at you for nothing, and thinking you for being poor. At the end of the day, everyone has a jealous heart in their hearts, and once it is aroused, it will hurt others and themselves. The only way to control it is not to compare, to be yourself, not to show off, not to be attacked by others.
People will always feel sympathy for the misfortune of strangers, but it is very difficult to accept a proud friend, which requires great cultivation the day after tomorrow, and this is human nature.