Text: Zhou Peng. Managing feelings is like preparing bath water, too cold and too hot will not be comfortable.
It is necessary to have the right temperature and just the right state to make both people feel joy and happiness.
To manage love, women and men must know how to maintain the right way to get along. Blindly pandering will only make your pay cheap, and love will also become cheap.
Women, if you want a man to get along with you for a long time and like you more and more, don't be too "obedient".
A woman who makes a man fall in love to the point of "going crazy" has a characteristic: she is very good at "refusing".
Sometimes, rejection is a charm that makes people can't help but appreciate you.
I've seen a ** like this, which is:
A girl is especially fond of a man, and when the man finds out, he quickly joins her.
Soon after, to break through the last line of defense, the girl hesitated. The man immediately showed a look of indifference, feeling that the woman did not love him that much.
The girl was afraid of losing him, so she complied.
The man was just happy that night, but then he became more and more indifferent to her.
Some people get it too easily, and they won't cherish even the best things.
Socrates said, "The warmest love will have the most indifferent ending." ”A woman who makes a man fall in love to the point of "going crazy", when she is in love, knows how to refuse to have an intimate relationship too early.
A wise woman, even if she loves a man very much, will not give everything too soon.
Instead, the man's character will be examined first to see if he is sincere. If a man doesn't want to give, but only wants to take, he will take back his heart instead of taking.
Men can restrain their desires, respect women's wishes, be willing to slow down the pace of love, and get to know each other for a longer time, such a man is worthy of a woman's life.
Women, don't let him experience the whole process of love quickly, control the rhythm of love, give slowly little by little, and don't let him get everything from you easily.
A woman who knows how to love herself makes a man more conquestful, more respectful of you, and more cherished for you.
When you fall in love with someone, you can express your love appropriately, however, don't compromise at will.
Don't constantly wronged yourself for the sake of loving him. Relying on compromise and forbearance in exchange for each other's feelings to be able to continue to operate, it will be very painful to live.
If a man accepts the way you get along with each other with peace of mind, then he must not love you.
He just wants to control you and see how far you can sacrifice for him.
Get more benefits on you and make his life more comfortable.
Even if you lose all your personality for him, or even give up your own life, the other party will not have the slightest gratitude and love. He just thinks he's attractive, and he'll think you're stupid.
"I encourage everyone to be a cold person, being overly enthusiastic is not a way for a person to maintain a good relationship," Cai said. ”Men love women who are "crazy", and when they get along, they know how to refuse to compromise for men in everything.
When two people get along, they can compromise, but only if both parties make concessions.
If a man has a tough attitude and does not consider your feelings, then you do not need to embarrass yourself for him and blindly compromise for him.
The emperor in "Yanxi Raiders" once said to Wei Yingluo: Other women are respectful and will obediently wait for him to be pampered, only Wei Yingluo, who is bold and reckless, dares to let the emperor wait for her.
Wei Yingluo raised her eyebrows, saying that she was such a woman, rebellious, doing her own thing, doing whatever she wanted, not liking to be restrained, how happy she was to live.
If the emperor is not willing to wait, he can go to other women, in short, she will not become like other women, she will only be obedient and obedient.
Wei Yingluo's willfulness and love to play a little temper made the emperor feel the fun of managing different feelings.
He only has this little woman in his heart who can't be completely conquered, and he will do everything he can to "fight" with her.
The emperor loved her so much that he couldn't extricate himself and couldn't take back his heart.
A woman who makes a man fall in love with a man to the point of "madness", when she falls in love, she knows how to refuse to give up herself for a man.
Don't be an obedient woman, you have to have your own character, you can be arrogant, don't always obey.
You live a wonderful life, shine with self-confidence, and are not easy to be conquered, so men will spend more effort on you and have a stronger desire to conquer.
When a man can't figure out you, can't guess your joys, sorrows, and sorrows, and doesn't know how many new tricks you have, he can attract him closer and make him pay more to you.
Never become what he likes because of love.
The moment you lose yourself, you don't deserve to be loved anymore.
In love, you must learn to make trade-offs, know how to retain your own personality, and don't give up self-development, which is the master of managing love.
Learn to help yourself and don't become too emotional because of love.
Only by staying sober and constantly improving oneself can we show more charm and advantages, and truly gain the favor and recognition of others.
When managing love, women who know how to refuse make men "go crazy" in love.
February** Dynamic Incentive Program
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About the author: Zhou Peng, an emotional writer, takes dreams as horses and words for a living. Carefully build Zhou Peng's meditation classroom, committed to cultivating the mind, improving cognition, and surpassing oneself. Grow together along the way.