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Blame. The gray hair is covered with temples, and the skin is not solid.
Although there are five boys, it is always difficult to write and write.
Ah Shu is twenty-eight, lazy so there is no match.
A Xuan Xingzhi learns, but does not love literature.
Yongduan is thirteen years old, and he doesn't know six and seven.
Tongzi hangs nine years old, but looks for pears and chestnuts.
Heaven is lucky, and it is in the cup.
Tao Yuanming is a famous poet, poet, essayist, and founder of the "Shanshui Pastoral" school in China, and Tao Yuanming's original family background was not too bad. When Tao Yuanming's father died when he was eight years old, the family gradually declined.
At the age of twenty, Tao Yuanming began his career as a wanderer to earn a living. His career was not satisfactory, and after several twists and turns, he finally chose to go into hiding. Tao Yuanming was 44 years old when he wrote this poem, and he had already experienced the career of resigning from the government and becoming an official, and he only had his eldest son in his 30s, born to his second wife, and then gave birth to three sons, and after the death of the second wife, Tao Yuanming married a third wife and gave birth to a fifth son. Then this poem is written about these sons, let's see if Tao Yuanming's son is a pillar of the country.
The gray hair is covered with temples, and the skin is not solid.
Although there are five boys, it is always difficult to write and write.
These four verses say that I now have gray hair on my temples, my skin is saggy, and my body is no longer strong. Although he has five sons, none of them likes pen and paper, and no one likes to read.
Ah Shu is twenty-eight, lazy so there is no match.
Ah Shu is the eldest, he is sixteen years old, but he is extremely lazy.
A Xuan Xingzhi learns, but does not love literature.
Ah Xuan is the second in line, and he will be fifteen years old soon, but he doesn't like to learn to write articles. Confucius once said, "I am ten and five and am determined to learn", Tao Yuanming borrowed Confucius's saying here, and at the age of 15, it should be the age to aspire to learn, but this second Ah Xuan doesn't like articles, that is, he doesn't like to study, he doesn't like to learn.
Yongduan is thirteen years old, and he doesn't know six and seven.
Ah Yong and Ah Duan's two sons are thirteen years old, but they can't count, and they can't count six or seven. This is thirteen years old and can't count the single digits, Tao Yuanming still can't be angry? Don't worry, let's see, why can't he mention his family's son.
Tongzi hangs nine years old, but looks for pears and chestnuts.
The youngest son, Tongzi, is the fifth, almost nine years old, and he only knows how to find pears and chestnuts to eat, which means that he only knows how to be greedy, and he doesn't know anything else, and he is not interested in anything. These five sons are not reading materials, Tao Yuanming, a man who reads poetry and books, raises these sons who do not learn and have no skills, every day is like a year, life is better than death.
It is not difficult to see that this poem reveals the poet's disappointment with his son everywhere, although the ancients "learned to be literary and martial arts, and the goods were with the emperor's family". It seems that Tao Yuanming's sons have little hope.
Heaven is lucky, and it is in the cup.
But so what? If this is really the case with Destiny, let's drink this glass of wine for the time being. "How can we solve our worries? Only Du Kang" Tao Yuanming sighed after his son, and there was nothing he could do, he drank the moment first, and his children and grandchildren had their own children and grandchildren.
Children are not reading material, hobbies are ranked first, the ancients said: "the knowledge is not as good as the good, the good is not as good as the happy", talent accounts for a large proportion, the edification of family education is also very important, the social environment is also very important to the definition of talents, all levels are superimposed, this is complex many times is not controlled by people.
When there is a conflict in the parent-child relationship of the family, it is necessary to solve the contradiction in a timely manner, not like Tao Yuanming, when the five sons have academic problems, when the father is so helpless, it is difficult to solve the problem quickly.
If the child just doesn't study well, learn from Su Shi's mentality. Su Shi said, "Everyone raises a son and wants to be smart, but I was mistaken by being smart all my life." I hope that the child will be foolish and reckless, and there will be no disaster and no difficulty to the minister. "Su Shi said that when people raise their sons, they hope that their sons will become Chan, but I feel that I have always been mistaken by wisdom in my life. May my child be dull and upright, free from disasters and troubles, until the ** Houlu. Su Shi has had a bumpy career in his life, but his mentality has always been very broad, and his requirements for children are not "chicken babies", he only hopes that the children are safe and healthy, have good conduct, and be happy.
Every child is an angel, and as a parent, loving and supporting children is the greatest wisdom.
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