February** Dynamic Incentive Plan Today I want to talk to you about the marriage code hidden behind the high-profile TV series "Thirty Only". With its real and down-to-earth plot, this drama depicts the trivial life and emotional conflicts between a couple, which has aroused the resonance and thinking of countless audiences. However, behind the seemingly simple plot, what kind of marriage code is hidden? Let's find out!
First of all, let's review the classic plot in the play: Chen Yu and Zhong Xiaoqin, Chen Yu is a proper straight man, he thinks that others must know what he knows, he is a typical "straight man of steel", and Zhong Xiaoqin is a person who can't hide his joys, sorrows, and sorrows on his face, and is a straightforward woman who expresses his emotions. The combination of two people with very different personalities is destined to produce many contradictions. The personality differences between them have led to a lot of friction, such as Chen Yu's reluctance to replace the old door locks at home, while Zhong Xiaoqin is very dissatisfied with this. This detail subtly reflects the problems faced by many couples in real life: poor communication and insufficient emotional expression.
What's even more surprising is that when Chen Yu decided to divorce Zhong Xiaoqin, he took the initiative to give her half of the real estate. This move not only surprised Zhong Xiaoqin, but also made many viewers wonder. After all, this house is Chen Yu's pre-marital property, and he himself has always shown a careful calculation of money. So, why did he make such a decision? Is it out of apology to his wife? Or is it out of the desire to keep the marriage? Let's move on.
In fact, behind Chen Yu's move, it reflects the complexity of his heart and the importance he attaches to marriage. As a person who grew up in a single-parent family, Chen Yu developed the habit of thrift and thrift, which also affected his view of material things. In the face of the cracks in his marriage, although he was not good at expressing it, he expressed his love and apology to his wife with practical actions. As he said: "Maybe give her half of the house, at least she won't move out of here during this time, and after the two calm down, maybe there will be a chance to keep and continue the relationship." These words can't help but make people sigh, it turns out that straight men also have a tender side!
It's normal to have small fights in marriage, but you also need to be honest and communicate in a timely manner. Guessing won't solve anything. Especially women like Zhong Xiaoqin, what they need is care, what they need is to be able to take care of her emotions, a simple hug, a warm word, are enough to make them feel loved.
In marriage, communication and understanding are crucial. The conflict between Chen Yu and Zhong Xiaoqin is not because they don't love each other, but because of a lack of communication and understanding. And this situation is not uncommon in real life. Therefore, after reading "Thirty Only", we may be able to get some inspiration from it: small fights in marriage are normal, but they also need to be communicated and understood in a timely manner. Guessing won't solve anything. Especially for a woman like Zhong Xiaoqin, what she needs is care and consideration, and what she needs is to be able to take care of her emotions.
As a real and down-to-earth TV series, "Thirty Only" not only brought us jokes and touches, but also made us think more deeply about marriage. I hope that every couple can cherish each other, grow together in marriage, and run a happy family together.