As we all know, strange encounters inevitably come with a variety of complex emotions, especially when the boundaries between friendship and love become blurred.
Can the opposite sex who slept with him continue to maintain a pure friendship relationship?
If it's not true love, there are usually 2 endings:
Take a step back and become normal friends
Two people who were once close will realize their mistakes after having a relationship, and they will choose to take a step back and become ordinary friends.
Of course, this is not achieved overnight, and both parties need to have a clear understanding and boundaries, as well as enough respect and trust between each other.
Ah Qiang and Li Mei grew up together since childhood, and they are almost like brothers and sisters.
After accidentally having a relationship, they didn't cut off contact immediately, but just reduced communication and remained friends while making sure there were no emotional entanglements.
When they return home for the Chinese New Year, the two of them will greet each other and share the ups and downs of their lives.
They've found a new way to get along
Take care of each other with a peaceful mind, even though they are not lovers, but they can still understand each other.
And in order to maintain such a relationship, two people must maintain a certain sense of boundaries and avoid being immersed in the gentle countryside of the past and affecting each other's lives.
At the same time, they may cherish and appreciate each other's strengths more in their new relationship, and find that there is a good side to this distance.
gradually drifted apart and became passers-by in each other's lives
This situation may be due to embarrassment or confusion about how to get along next.
But whether it is a sudden disconnection or a gradual estrangement, the final result is to become a passerby in each other's lives.
There is no emotional involvement, no unnecessary misunderstandings and troubles, just like two parallel lines, which intersect at a certain moment and then extend in different directions.
Xiao Li and Ah Hua are college classmates and have always played well.
However, one day, under the influence of alcohol and vibes, they broke through that line and slept together.
When they wake up, they both realize that this intimate encounter, which goes beyond friendship, is likely to cause embarrassment and misunderstanding for each other.
Since then, the two of them have never mentioned the events of that night again, and the unrestrained sense of ease when they get along has disappeared.
As the days went by, the contact gradually decreased, and eventually they became passers-by in each other's lives.
I have to admit itThat kind of psychological burden and insecurity is like an invisible barrier, which will make the originally close friend become strange.
This kind of ending is actually very common in life, and many people who have had similar experiences will choose to be silently estranged until they completely break off contact because of various discomforts.
They would rather lose this friendship than face that awkward past.
Of course, no matter what the outcome is, the important thing is to recognize the reality and understand each other's needs.
After all, every relationship has its meaning of existence, whether it is to become an ordinary friend or quietly go away, the decision has always been in the hands of two people who have experienced it personally.
Whether or not they can continue depends on the attitude of both parties, their ability to deal with the problem, and their expectations for the future relationship. List of high-quality authors All in all, the opposite sex that has slept together can't be friends, and there is no standard answer.
But if the two parties are not true love, then their friendship is likely to deteriorate until the vicissitudes of life push it in the other direction.
I hope you and I can understand that such experiences are part of life's journey, and sooner or later everyone has to learn to deal with these delicate and complex relationships.
I am Uncle Zhi, an uncle with three super positive views, who records life with words, focuses on emotional problems, "follows" me, and gives you answers!