In the ambiguous stage of the relationship, men and women will test each other's hearts to determine whether the relationship can be sublimated.
When determining a romantic relationship, many times "you can hold hands" will be used as a signal.
So, when a man and a woman are dating, how can you tell when you can hold hands? You can see if there are any of the following 3 manifestations.
There is a saying about judging whether a person is interesting to you or not:
"If you like someone, you will have a physical liking of acceptance, that is, you will not reject two people who are very close. ”From a psychological point of view, it is true that the distance between people depends on the degree of intimacy and trust between each other.
Especially in the interaction between the opposite sex, the relationship between ordinary men and women will maintain a certain distance between men and women.
Only two people who like each other will naturally get close.
Serving food at the dinner table only happens between very close people, such as family members, couples or lovers.
Men and women don't mind serving each other's dishes, which means that they are familiar with each other and have acquiesced or are used to such subconscious actions.
When colleague Xiaorui talked about the time when she fell in love, she was dating and eating with her boyfriend many times, from the beginning of the respectful to each other, and later when she saw something delicious, she wanted to put it in the bowl for each other.
Men and women love each other, often in some small details of getting along, as long as you pay attention to observe, you can capture the right opportunity and take the initiative to take the step of holding hands.
When it comes to dating between men and women, being with people who don't feel it, is spending their days like years, and they are very uncomfortable, and they can't wait to run away immediately.
With the person you like, but you always feel like time flies, as if you have just been together, and it is time to separate.
Writer Wang Xiaobo once described love like this:
"I feel like our love is like a candy jar, and we're like two kids around this candy jar, and every now and then we find some surprises in it. ”When two like-minded people are together, they will not feel the passage of time, they will only feel that happiness is frozen, and when they have to say goodbye, they always sigh that time is like a white horse.
Love is a beautiful thing, which can make people forget their troubles, can make people feel refreshed, and can make people forget to return.
Both men and women hope that they can have a sincere relationship, but they are always suffering from dating, unable to find the right time to seize love and stamp love by holding hands.
If you are confused, it is better to observe whether both parties have these 3 feelings when two people get along: they do not reject the proximity of distance, they don't mind serving each other's dishes, and they feel that time flies too quickly together.
If you have one, you might as well be the one who takes the initiative to hold hands and achieve a love story, of course, provided that you respect the other person's own wishes.
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