During this year's Spring Festival, I made a controversial suggestion: it is better to abolish the tradition of visiting relatives and friends. This may sound a bit aggressive, but if we think about it, it's probably not a ridiculous claim. The three reasons I want to share are all based on deep thinking about life and sensitive insight into reality. At this special moment, perhaps we need to revisit our traditions and see if there is a more relaxed and enjoyable way to celebrate Chinese New Year.
First of all, visiting relatives and friends is really tiring. You have to imagine that every time you go to a relative's house, you not only have to bring a gift to show respect, but also have to ask the host to prepare a banquet for you. Not only does this cost money, but it also adds a lot of trouble to an already busy day. Such a visit is not only physically and mentally exhausting, but it can also become a burden after many times, you say?
Second, the concept of money worship in reality makes kinship more complicated. During New Year's greetings, people always compare their strength, and the good and bad are clear at a glance. Rich people are warmly welcomed, while people with average economy can hardly get genuine respect even if they work hard. This kind of money-worshipping kinship makes people feel tired, because it has become a superficial comparison and a hypocritical compliment.
In addition, the jealousy and comparison between relatives make family relations very complicated. When a family gets together, it's easy to start comparing who is good and who's is bad. Such comparisons not only make the family relationship deteriorate, but also make the whole atmosphere tense and hypocritical. What was supposed to be a joyous reunion turned into a battlefield of mutual suspicion.
With these three reasons, I recommend canceling visits to relatives and friends. This is not a repudiation of tradition, but a rational reflection on the way of life. Maybe we can try a new way to welcome the Spring Festival with a more relaxed attitude, so that laughter is purer and family affection is more sincere.
So, this year's Spring Festival, why not try not to visit relatives and friends? Or in another way, through the mobile phone ** New Year's greetings, you can bow, kowtow, and say a greeting, which is also a different way to greet the New Year. In this way, you can stay in touch with your family and friends without burdening yourself and others.
Truth be told, this suggestion is not fanciful. During the epidemic, everyone was forced by the situation to celebrate the festival in a similar way. Eating and sleeping at home, greeting the New Year through the mobile phone, and sometimes having a drink together, it is quite pleasant to think about. In contrast, as soon as it is opened up now, the traditional visit to relatives and friends will be ushered in again, but I don't know how many families will bring helplessness and trouble.
This is not my personal whim, many netizens have also expressed their support, thinking that it is a good idea to cancel the visit to relatives and friends. So, what are the underlying reasons behind this suggestion?
First of all, as mentioned earlier, visiting relatives and friends can be really tiring. This is not only a physical fatigue, but also a psychological burden. Every time I go to a relative's house, I have to prepare, for fear of offending anyone. And the host also has to prepare for the welcome, and the banquet, food, and even accommodation must be thoughtful. This kind of interaction not only makes people feel a material burden, but also a kind of tension and pressure on the soul.
Secondly, the reality of money worship in society is more pronounced among relatives. What do you say? What's bad? Strength is everything, whether you are a popular relative, or the one who is treated coldly. Today's people are too realistic, rich people are respected, and no rich people can hardly integrate into that superior circle no matter how hard they try. This is the real kinship, and it is no longer the real kinship of the past.
In the end, jealousy has eroded the essence of family affection. For example, when a family gets together, it is easy to fall into the whirlpool of comparison. Everyone sat together and began to brag and sneer. Look at how many gifts their family has given and how much they have spent on their children's New Year's money. Then it's a matter of thinking, let's go tomorrow to see whose situation it is? It doesn't matter if other people are willing or not, whether they are willing to give their children New Year's money. This kind of comparison not only makes people feel tired, but also makes the whole atmosphere of the party tense and hypocritical.
In such a situation, canceling visits to relatives and friends has become a rational and realistic choice. This is not a rejection of tradition, but a rational reflection on the way of life. Maybe we can try a new way to welcome the Spring Festival with a more relaxed attitude, so that laughter is purer and family affection is more sincere.
So, this year's Spring Festival, why not try not to visit relatives and friends? Or in another way, through the mobile phone ** New Year's greetings, you can bow, kowtow, and say a greeting, which is also a different way to greet the New Year. In this way, you can stay in touch with your family and friends without burdening yourself and others.
Truth be told, this suggestion is not fanciful. During the epidemic, everyone was forced by the situation to celebrate the festival in a similar way. Eating and sleeping at home, greeting the New Year through the mobile phone, and sometimes having a drink together, it is quite pleasant to think about. In contrast, as soon as it is opened up now, the traditional visit to relatives and friends will be ushered in again, but I don't know how many families will bring helplessness and trouble.
This is not my personal whim, many netizens have also expressed their support, thinking that it is a good idea to cancel the visit to relatives and friends. So, what are the underlying reasons behind this suggestion?
First of all, as mentioned earlier, visiting relatives and friends can be really tiring. This is not only a physical fatigue, but also a psychological burden. Every time I go to a relative's house, I have to prepare, for fear of offending anyone. And the host also has to prepare for the welcome, and the banquet, food, and even accommodation must be thoughtful. This kind of interaction not only makes people feel a material burden, but also a kind of tension and pressure on the soul.
Secondly, the reality of money worship in society is more pronounced among relatives. What do you say? What's bad? Strength is everything, whether you are a popular relative, or the one who is treated coldly. Today's people are too realistic, rich people are respected, and no rich people can hardly integrate into that superior circle no matter how hard they try. This is the real kinship, and it is no longer the real kinship of the past.
In the end, jealousy has eroded the essence of family affection. For example, when a family gets together, it is easy to fall into the whirlpool of comparison. Everyone sat together and began to brag and sneer. Look at how many gifts their family has given and how much they have spent on their children's New Year's money. Then it's a matter of thinking, let's go tomorrow to see whose situation it is? It doesn't matter if other people are willing or not, whether they are willing to give their children New Year's money. This kind of comparison not only makes people feel tired, but also makes the whole atmosphere of the party tense and hypocritical.
In such a situation, canceling visits to relatives and friends has become a rational and realistic choice. This is not a rejection of tradition, but a rational reflection on the way of life. Maybe we can try a new way to welcome the Spring Festival with a more relaxed attitude, so that laughter is purer and family affection is more sincere.
So, this year's Spring Festival, why not try not to visit relatives and friends? Or in another way, through the mobile phone ** New Year's greetings, you can bow, kowtow, and say a greeting, which is also a different way to greet the New Year. In this way, you can stay in touch with your family and friends without burdening yourself and others.
Truth be told, this suggestion is not fanciful. During the epidemic, everyone was forced by the situation to celebrate the festival in a similar way. Eating and sleeping at home, greeting the New Year through the mobile phone, and sometimes having a drink together, it is quite pleasant to think about. In contrast, as soon as it is opened up now, the traditional visit to relatives and friends will be ushered in again, but I don't know how many families will bring helplessness and trouble.
This is not my personal whim, many netizens have also expressed their support, thinking that it is a good idea to cancel the visit to relatives and friends. So, what are the underlying reasons behind this suggestion?
First of all, as mentioned earlier, visiting relatives and friends can be really tiring. This is not only a physical fatigue, but also a psychological burden. Every time I go to a relative's house, I have to prepare, for fear of offending anyone. And the host also has to prepare for the welcome, and the banquet, food, and even accommodation must be thoughtful. This kind of interaction not only makes people feel a material burden, but also a kind of tension and pressure on the soul.
Secondly, the reality of money worship in society is more pronounced among relatives. What do you say? What's bad? Strength is everything, whether you are a popular relative, or the one who is treated coldly. Today's people are too realistic, rich people are respected, and no rich people can hardly integrate into that superior circle no matter how hard they try. This is the real kinship, and it is no longer the real kinship of the past.
In the end, jealousy has eroded the essence of family affection. For example, when a family gets together, it is easy to fall into the whirlpool of comparison. Everyone sat together and began to brag and sneer. Look at how many gifts their family has given and how much they have spent on their children's New Year's money. Then it's a matter of thinking, let's go tomorrow to see whose situation it is? It doesn't matter if other people are willing or not, whether they are willing to give their children New Year's money. This kind of comparison not only makes people feel tired, but also makes the whole atmosphere of the party tense and hypocritical.
In such a situation, canceling visits to relatives and friends has become a rational and realistic choice. This is not a rejection of tradition, but a rational reflection on the way of life. Maybe we can try a new way to welcome the Spring Festival with a more relaxed attitude, so that laughter is purer and family affection is more sincere.
So, this year's Spring Festival, why not try not to visit relatives and friends? Or in another way, through the mobile phone ** New Year's greetings, you can bow, kowtow, and say a greeting, which is also a different way to greet the New Year. In this way, you can stay in touch with your family and friends without burdening yourself and others.
Truth be told, this suggestion is not fanciful. During the epidemic, everyone was forced by the situation to celebrate the festival in a similar way. Eating and sleeping at home, greeting the New Year through the mobile phone, and sometimes having a drink together, it is quite pleasant to think about. In contrast, as soon as it is opened up now, the traditional visit to relatives and friends will be ushered in again, but I don't know how many families will bring helplessness and trouble.
This is not my personal whim, many netizens have also expressed their support, thinking that it is a good idea to cancel the visit to relatives and friends. So, what are the underlying reasons behind this suggestion?
First of all, as mentioned earlier, visiting relatives and friends can be really tiring. This is not only a physical fatigue, but also a psychological burden. Every time I go to a relative's house, I have to prepare, for fear of offending anyone. And the host also has to prepare for the welcome, and the banquet, food, and even accommodation must be thoughtful. This kind of interaction not only makes people feel a material burden, but also a kind of tension and pressure on the soul.
Secondly, the reality of money worship in society is more pronounced among relatives. What do you say? What's bad? Strength is everything, whether you are a popular relative, or the one who is treated coldly. Today's people are too realistic, rich people are respected, and no rich people can hardly integrate into that superior circle no matter how hard they try. This is the real kinship, and it is no longer the real kinship of the past.
In the end, jealousy has eroded the essence of family affection. For example, when a family gets together, it is easy to fall into the whirlpool of comparison. Everyone sat together and began to brag and sneer. Look at how many gifts their family has given and how much they have spent on their children's New Year's money. Then it's a matter of thinking, let's go tomorrow to see whose situation it is? It doesn't matter if other people are willing or not, whether they are willing to give their children New Year's money. This kind of comparison not only makes people feel tired, but also makes the whole atmosphere of the party tense and hypocritical.
In such a situation, canceling visits to relatives and friends has become a rational and realistic choice. This is not a rejection of tradition, but a rational reflection on the way of life. Maybe we can try a new way to welcome the Spring Festival with a more relaxed attitude, so that laughter is purer and family affection is more sincere.
So, this year's Spring Festival, why not try not to visit relatives and friends? Or in another way, through the mobile phone ** New Year's greetings, you can bow, kowtow, and say a greeting, which is also a different way to greet the New Year. In this way, you can stay in touch with your family and friends without burdening yourself and others.
Truth be told, this suggestion is not fanciful. During the epidemic, everyone was forced by the situation to celebrate the festival in a similar way. Eating and sleeping at home, greeting the New Year through the mobile phone, and sometimes having a drink together, it is quite pleasant to think about. In contrast, as soon as it is opened up now, the traditional visit to relatives and friends will be ushered in again, but I don't know how many families will bring helplessness and trouble.
This is not my personal whim, many netizens have also expressed their support, thinking that it is a good idea to cancel the visit to relatives and friends. So, what are the underlying reasons behind this suggestion?
First of all, as mentioned earlier, visiting relatives and friends can be really tiring. This is not only a physical fatigue, but also a psychological burden. Every time I go to a relative's house, I have to prepare, for fear of offending anyone. And the host also has to prepare for the welcome, and the banquet, food, and even accommodation must be thoughtful. This kind of interaction not only makes people feel a material burden, but also a kind of tension and pressure on the soul.
Secondly, the reality of money worship in society is more pronounced among relatives. What do you say? What's bad? Strength is everything, whether you are a popular relative, or the one who is treated coldly. Today's people are too realistic, rich people are respected, and no rich people can hardly integrate into that superior circle no matter how hard they try. This is the real kinship, and it is no longer the real kinship of the past.
In the end, jealousy has eroded the essence of family affection. For example, when a family gets together, it is easy to fall into the whirlpool of comparison. Everyone sat together and began to brag and sneer. Look at how many gifts their family has given and how much they have spent on their children's New Year's money. Then it's a matter of thinking, let's go tomorrow to see whose situation it is? It doesn't matter if other people are willing or not, whether they are willing to give their children New Year's money. This kind of comparison not only makes people feel tired, but also makes the whole atmosphere of the party tense and hypocritical.
In such a situation, canceling visits to relatives and friends has become a rational and realistic choice. This is not a rejection of tradition, but a rational reflection on the way of life. Maybe we can try a new way to welcome the Spring Festival with a more relaxed attitude, so that laughter is purer and family affection is more sincere.
So, this year's Spring Festival, why not try not to visit relatives and friends? Or in another way, through the mobile phone ** New Year's greetings, you can bow, kowtow, and say a greeting, which is also a different way to greet the New Year. In this way, you can stay in touch with your family and friends without burdening yourself and others.
Truth be told, this suggestion is not fanciful. During the epidemic, everyone was forced by the situation to celebrate the festival in a similar way. Eating and sleeping at home, greeting the New Year through the mobile phone, and sometimes having a drink together, it is quite pleasant to think about. In contrast, as soon as it is opened up now, the traditional visit to relatives and friends will be ushered in again, but I don't know how many families will bring helplessness and trouble.
This is not my personal whim, many netizens have also expressed their support, thinking that it is a good idea to cancel the visit to relatives and friends. So, what are the underlying reasons behind this suggestion?
First of all, as mentioned earlier, visiting relatives and friends can be really tiring. This is not only a physical fatigue, but also a psychological burden. Every time I go to a relative's house, I have to prepare, for fear of offending anyone. And the host also has to prepare for the welcome, and the banquet, food, and even accommodation must be thoughtful. This kind of interaction not only makes people feel a material burden, but also a kind of tension and pressure on the soul.
Secondly, the reality of money worship in society is more pronounced among relatives. What do you say? What's bad? Strength is everything, whether you are a popular relative, or the one who is treated coldly. Today's people are too realistic, rich people are respected, and no rich people can hardly integrate into that superior circle no matter how hard they try. This is the real kinship, and it is no longer the real kinship of the past.
In the end, jealousy has eroded the essence of family affection. For example, when a family gets together, it is easy to fall into the whirlpool of comparison. Everyone sat together and began to brag and sneer. Look at how many gifts their family has given and how much they have spent on their children's New Year's money. Then it's a matter of thinking, let's go tomorrow to see whose situation it is? It doesn't matter if other people are willing or not, whether they are willing to give their children New Year's money. This kind of comparison not only makes people feel tired, but also makes the whole atmosphere of the party tense and hypocritical.
In such a situation, canceling visits to relatives and friends has become a rational and realistic choice. This is not a rejection of tradition, but a rational reflection on the way of life. Maybe we can try a new way to welcome the Spring Festival with a more relaxed attitude, so that laughter is purer and family affection is more sincere.
So, this year's Spring Festival, why not try not to visit relatives and friends? Or in another way, through the mobile phone ** New Year's greetings, you can bow, kowtow, and say a greeting, which is also a different way to greet the New Year. In this way, you can stay in touch with your family and friends without burdening yourself and others.
Truth be told, this suggestion is not fanciful. During the epidemic, everyone was forced by the situation to celebrate the festival in a similar way. Eating and sleeping at home, greeting the New Year through the mobile phone, and sometimes having a drink together, it is quite pleasant to think about. In contrast, as soon as it is opened up now, the traditional visit to relatives and friends will be ushered in again, but I don't know how many families will bring helplessness and trouble.