How desperate must a person be to feel that death is a relief?

Mondo Psychological Updated on 2024-02-01

I have a friend, he and his wife spent 30,000 square meters of loan 200w to buy an 89-square-meter school district house in order to have a good education for their children, and now this school district house has been reduced to 150,000 flats have not stopped falling.

This year, his company has cut his salary significantly, his wife is also unemployed, and now they want to sell the house at a loss and no one takes over, the house they bought a few days ago was auctioned ** 1.3 million no one took it, during this time I clearly saw that his hair was all white, I also went to his house a few days ago to play, the child is very cute and sensible, but I can see that he and his wife are very preoccupied.

After eating, he went out to smoke with me, howling and crying that the house he bought for the baby was auctioned, and he owed the bank more than one million.

After being silent for a long time, I could only comfort him and say, you have a wife and children, you can't fall, everything will be fine. My friend said that it can't be good, now it's more uncomfortable than death, after losing so much money, my daughter's money for studying and living is gone, and now I can't even pay for renting a house, and soon my daughter will go out with him to sleep on the street, he said a little choked.

I took out 5,000 yuan and said to him to take it out first and find a house to rent first, it's really not okay to come to live with me, my house here is not big but it can be crowded and can live.

In fact, I already knew that he invited me to dinner is really in trouble, I guess he wants to ask me for help, but I still have to help this favor, I was not familiar with the business when I first arrived at the company, it was this big brother who brought me out step by step, her daughter is very well-behaved and obedient to the company and often brings small desserts to colleagues here, so I can't bear to let his family fall to the point of sleeping on the street.

I'm also wondering why society is so cruel to ordinary people now.

Cool, these years to have a good education to marry a wife to buy a house, and after buying a house, directly cut leeks to put the people in dire straits, my friend used to be a conscientious and motivated person, and now he is forced to live a little worse than dead, a few days ago he asked me out alone to talk to me. He said his current debt had overwhelmed him.

He calculated that if her wife divorced her, and then let his daughter have a way to live like her wife, he was ready to leave the world after the divorce, and then the debt would be wiped out.

Now he can't get rid of his daughter, so he wants his daughter to take care of me more after she recognizes me as a godfather. This scared me so much that I hurriedly said, you are gone, people die, debts are eliminated, will your wife and your daughter be happy? If you can't afford to pay back the money, you won't pay it back, now so many old people don't go to extremes, life and family are the most important.

When he heard this, he said that he would not die, but he still called her daughter over and kowtowed to me twice, and recognized me as a godfather. Hey, I'm speechless, how can the world be so bitter.

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