Watching the movie again ten years later, the marriage story of Jiang Defu and An Jie in "Parents' Love" is still embarrassing. However, today I want to tell you a little-known secret - An Jie glanced at Zhang Guilan and was relieved. This is a bewildering story involving deception, unhappy marriage, returning to his hometown to visit relatives, understanding and forgiveness, and the evaluation of Jiang Defu. Let's do it.
People's hearts are unpredictable, and marriage is a protracted battle. "This is a deep understanding of "Parents' Love". In this marriage feast, Jiang Defu's deception has become a link that cannot be ignored.
The starting point of marriage is often the splendid fireworks of love, but Jiang Defu's marriage begins with a show of vanity. When they met for the first time, he chose An Jie, but the reason was unsatisfactory. Someone once asked him: "If Zhang Guilan kept the woman's way and did not commit adultery with your father, would your father divorce her?" Jiang Changyi replied: "How can a rural woman become the face of an officer?" It can be seen that his prejudice against Zhang Guilan has long been deep-rooted.
What's even more incredible is that Jiang Defu is full of vanity about An Jie's choice. In a chance encounter, he found the most dazzling girl in the audience - An Jie. Such a choice makes people wonder, is Jiang Defu really in love with An Jie? Or is it just to satisfy your own vanity?
However, deception in marriage is not the responsibility of Jiang Defu on the one hand. Zhang Guilan was also a victim in this unhappy marriage. The arranged marriage and the separation that lasted for seven or eight years made Zhang Guilan suffer a lot in her marriage. Everything about her seems to be just waiting for Jiang Defu's return.
More than 30 years later, Jiang Defu took An Jie back to his hometown to visit relatives. The changes in her hometown are embarrassing, and Zhang Guilan is full of white hair, standing at the door with vicissitudes of life, looking into the distance. This former rural woman has lived in the guilt of marriage all her life. Even when Jiang Defu returned many years later, she still looked forward to his forgiveness.
The story has come to this point, and An Jie saw Jiang Defu's first wife, Zhang Guilan. Her first reaction turned out to be: "I finally know why my dad is divorced, that woman is at least 10 years older than my dad." This kind of shock and disdain makes people wonder what An Jie thinks in his heart.
However, the development of the story is unexpected. An Jie did not feel alienated or disgusted because of seeing Zhang Guilan. On the contrary, she showed a kind of understanding and forgiveness to Jiang Defu's first wife. This makes people wonder, what did An Jie see? Why was she relieved at a glance?
Perhaps, Jiang Defu's attitude towards Zhang Guilan is not simply disgust. Deep down, he may be full of self-blame and guilt for his past marriage. An Jie saw all this, and therefore relieved his prejudice against Zhang Guilan.
In the end, we have a more comprehensive evaluation of Jiang Defu in "Parents' Love". Is deception in marriage for vanity or to avoid responsibility? An Jie saw Zhang Guilan's glance, what was relieved? It's all so twisty and twisty that people can't help but think deeply.
In this story, marriage is like a drama, and everyone is playing their own role. An Jie was finally relieved, perhaps because she saw the unknown side of her father and the complicated truth in her marriage. And this kind of decryption may be one of the reasons why "Parents' Love" is loved by the audience.