February** Dynamic Incentive Program
Narrator: Chen Shuqing, 40 years old.
My husband and I are college classmates, my husband is not only handsome, but also very good, he was the president of the student union when he was in school, and he is very respected by the teacher, such an excellent person, of course, there is no shortage of admirers.
And I look average, my appearance is mediocre, my figure is average, I am less than 1.6 meters tall and inconspicuous in the crowd, but I can win my husband's heart and be considerate to me in every way.
In college, my husband and I came together because of common interests. We participated in the school's literary club together, wrote poetry and articles together. In the process, our relationship gradually warmed up and finally came together.
My husband is a warm man and I like him so much. When I was in college, I often had cold hands and feet, and my husband helped me get hot water every day. I like to eat spicy fragrant pot, so he often accompanies me to line up to buy it.
I asked him, "There are so many beautiful and talented people in the school, why do you like me?" ”
My husband looked at me affectionately and said, "I'm going to get married, marry a wife." The good-looking one is a vase, and it doesn't work, only a kind and sensible one like you is my dish. ”
After graduating from university, I followed my husband back to his hometown, and we took the teacher preparation exam in the local county together. My husband took the junior high school Chinese teacher exam, and I took the primary school exam, and we both went ashore, which is gratifying.
I took my husband home to see my parents for the first time, and my parents did not object to us being together, but in the evening I heard the conversation between my mother and my father, and my mother said, "I really can't bear to marry us so far, how difficult it will be to go home in the future, and we don't know if we are bullied outside." ”
Dad comforted her: "The girl can't help it, I think the boy has a good character, we have to believe in the girl's vision, and we also believe that she has the ability to handle family relationships." ”
Later, when the parents of both sides met, my mother-in-law swore to my mother: "Don't worry, I will treat Qingqing as my own daughter in the future, and I will not let her suffer half of the grievances." ”
Even if my mother-in-law's family is very good, my mother will always be worried, in addition to worrying about the relationship between my mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, I am also worried about the discord between my sister-in-law.
My mother-in-law has two children, in addition to my husband, there is a little sister below, she is 15 years younger than my husband, she was only 10 years old when we got married, we all live together as a family, and my parents are worried that there will be bumps.
My mother-in-law's family conditions are good, my parents-in-law can earn more than 300,000 yuan a year in business, they are usually busy with business, my sister often has me to pick up, and I usually tutor her to study.
The eldest sister-in-law is like a mother, she respects me as a sister-in-law very much, and she likes to talk to me about anything on her mind. When the little girl was born, her family's living conditions were already very good, she was so much younger than his brother, and the whole family was spoiled, so it was inevitable that she would be a little arrogant, and some of the eldest lady's temper, but her eldest lady's temper had never been used against me.
I called ** and told my mother, "Mom, don't worry, my mother-in-law's family is very good to me, after we got married, there has never been a small quarrel, they treat me sincerely, and I am also very good to them." ”
My mom asked me, "How was the food there?" Still used to it? ”
I told her: "My mother-in-law usually cooks at home, and my mother-in-law says that I am a foreigner, and my taste may be different from everyone else, so I tell her what I like to eat, and she cooks it for me, and she tells her what she doesn't like to eat, and she tries to avoid it." ”
My mother-in-law's family especially likes to eat spicy food, no spicy food, no joy, I can't, I cough non-stop when I eat spicy food, and then my mother-in-law in order to take care of me, are the same dish, make two servings, one spicy, one not spicy. When I first got married, I wasn't used to it, I thought it was too troublesome, so I wanted to do it myself, but my mother-in-law said, "It's nothing, I can't delay much effort, so don't be embarrassed." ”
I told my mother about this, and my mother said, "People are mutual, Qingqing, you have to remember that you must be filial to your in-laws at all times, love your sister, treat them well, and they will treat you well." ”
I know, Mom, it's the New Year soon, and I'm going to buy you and my in-laws and sister a piece of clothing, what do you think? "I sat down on the couch and chatted with my mom.
My mom said, "You don't have to buy it for us, we all have clothes, what are we spending that money for?" Your in-laws are businessmen, so you have a good face, so you can save money to buy a good one for each of them! ”
I said, "That's not good", in my heart, both parents are the same, buy everything fairly, you can't buy it for my parents, don't buy it for my in-laws, and of course you can't just buy it for my in-laws, not for my parents.
Although I just started working and my salary is not much, it is not bad for that money, as long as I can pass a little.
We had a good family atmosphere, and soon after we got married, I integrated into the family, and I was like a mother and daughter with my mother-in-law and like a sister to my sister-in-law. The three of us often go shopping together to buy clothes, and sometimes we will buy the same style, and wear them like a mother and daughter, which makes the neighbors envious. ”
Later, when I got pregnant and gave birth, my mother-in-law would still take most of the time to take care of me during confinement, although she was busy with business. Although the family invited the confinement lady, she was worried that the confinement lady did not know my taste, and I was not used to the food she cooked, so she secretly told me, "Qingqing, if you are not used to eating the food made by the confinement lady, just tell me, and I will cook it for you."
I said, "Mom, it's okay, Sister Wang's cooking is as delicious as what you cook, but there is a little, she boiled too many eggs for me, five or six at a meal, I can't eat so much, I told Sister Wang, she cooked two less per meal, but it's still a lot, I'm embarrassed to tell her again, you can help me eat some when you eat!" ”
The mother-in-law smiled and said, "You kid, you don't like to eat eggs, okay, I'll help you eat two when you eat in the future, okay?" ”
Hearing my mother-in-law's words, I laughed. I feel very happy, and it is really a blessing that it took many years to cultivate such a family.
The happy days passed year by year, my son gradually grew up, and my sister-in-law also grew into a slim girl, and later got married and had children.
The sister-in-law is looking for the object of the family conditions, and her mother-in-law died in a car accident two years ago, and there is no old man in the family to help Zhang Luoshi, and then when she was pregnant, we didn't worry about taking her to my house to live until the time of labor.
There is a custom on our side that a married daughter cannot be confined in her mother's house, otherwise we will let her live at home until confinement.
The child was born just in time for the winter vacation, and my mother-in-law looked for a confinement lady in advance, but as the Chinese New Year approached, my mother-in-law's business was in the peak season, and the store was too busy, so she couldn't spare time to take care of her sister.
Suddenly, one day, my mother-in-law said to me: "Even if I find someone, I am always worried, you just have a holiday, why don't you help Yaya (my sister-in-law's nickname) and help her sit down with her confinement sister-in-law." After all, the confinement lady needs to buy vegetables, cook, and take care of the baby, and sometimes she is too busy. Of course, the two of them usually have a confinement lady to take care of, you just need to follow the handle when the confinement lady is busy, we have lived together for so many years, you know what Yaya likes to eat, usually you buy more dishes she likes to eat. Yaya and I will not treat you badly, give the confinement lady 8,000, I will give you 10,000, let's rest assured. ”
I agreed, not for my mother-in-law's 10,000 yuan, when I was confined, my mother-in-law took good care of me, and now my sister is in need, and I should be duty-bound.
But when my mother found out, she said to me angrily, "You didn't marry their family to be a nanny, why do they have to tickle with six fingers when they have hired someone—what are you doing with one more?" We don't lack that 10,000 yuan. ”
I said: "Mom, I don't feel wronged, my mother-in-law just won't give me money, I want to help me too, my mother-in-law has never felt sorry for me for so many years, I know what she does to me." Moreover, the eldest sister-in-law is like a mother, my sister is what I watched grow up, and I also treat her as a daughter, she has no mother-in-law to help, only a confinement sister-in-law, I really don't feel at ease, we are all a family, and it is appropriate to help at a critical time, not to mention that I have nothing to do now on winter vacation. ”
My mother didn't say anything after listening to it, she was mainly afraid that I would be sad and used as a nanny and not respected by their family, so I made it clear to her that she wouldn't be worried.
In the days of the Chinese New Year, my sister-in-law took a vacation, my mother-in-law and I took turns to take care of it all day long, and at other times I was almost at my sister-in-law's house during the day, and I went back to my house after dark at night, fortunately we were all in a community, which was very convenient.
After my sister-in-law's confinement, my mother-in-law gave me 10,000 yuan, but I didn't ask for it. My sister-in-law bought me a gold bracelet, and when I took it, I bought her son a gold lock.
I think it's all a family, and it's right to help each other, because if you help a little bit, you ask for money regardless of your feelings, which is not good, is everyone right?
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